My in-laws ALWAYS butt into my family affairs! My twin sister is mad @ me, & now, her husband is butting in & also threatening me. I just graduated from college, & they're trying to take me down. They get mad when they can't use me out of money, & then they make threats in order to get what they want out of me. They just threatened to have me put in the mental hospital. You don't try to ruin someone else's WHOLE life, just because you're temporarily angry with them.
2006-08-19 13:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes i hate my in-laws for how they have treated my husband when he has done nothing wrong to them & i have never done anything wrong to them for us to be treated so badly. they only come around when they want something out of us & we have never done that to them so we had to cut them out of our life to keep us from going nuts.
2006-08-19 13:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Candy it is a wise person who takes time and makes an effort to really evaluate others "Butting In". You say "You don't try to ruin someone Else's WHOLE life, just because you're temporarily angry with them". MAYBE they have cause to be concerned about you, the concerns may be, to you, not correct or even fair but for you to have a clear conscience about these matters you should sit down with them at your request, and share an open Forum, like 'Answers" with them in a mature way with you as the moderator. Only this way will you be able to get a truer picture of their real intentions when they "Butt In".
Try it, it might open up insights into your character, their character and both of your sincerity.
2006-08-19 20:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candy is not talking about her in laws as in having a husband. She is talking about her foster sisters husband ( I believe)
She posts the same questions all the time, just in different wording.
Go and read her past posts and you will realize what I am saying.
As for you Candy. And again, I do not mean to sound rude but.......
Stop your damn whining about your situation on here and get off your *** and do something about your situation.
All the time that you spend on yahoo answers could be better spent out looking for a damn job to get yourself out of the living situation your in.
Hurricane Katrina hit a damn year ago and your still sponging off your foster parents and using it as an excuse.......Get real.
And stop making excuses for poor, poor pitiful me.
You are the only one that can control your life, not your foster parents, not your foster sister or her husband, not your friends, not the people here on this forum.
YOU, AND ONLY YOU.........so go and do something positive with your time and energy instead of sitting at the computer and whining to a bunch of people who are probably as tired of hearing about it as I am.
2006-08-19 20:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds like a very complicated situation. Do you have anyone on your side? You must have something going for you if you just graduated from college!
2006-08-19 20:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Curious in Seattle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're brother in law, your foster brother in law, your foster mom, your twin sister...
Your question history, shows who you are. You need some help already! GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE!
2006-08-19 20:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh . im sorry for u...how old r u?
ok.here we go
NEVER care about anyone, inside of u HATE them,but DONT show it to them.
pray God, try to stay patient, DONT let them make u angry..
and the MOST IMPORTANT thing, u hv to pull ur husband to urslef..
dont let him spend time wit his family,because his family WILL try to wash his brain,and u can b hurt.
HATE them,becauce THEY ALREADY hate u.
so b a silent gun
b clever!
b a STRONG woman,and solve this ****.
tell EVERYTHING to ur husband,but DONT insult his family..
ok.
take care...good luck.
2006-08-19 20:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by she-ra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't been married too long have you Candy?
I've been married forever. Foe the first couple years it bugged the s**t out of me, then I learned to simply blow them off. That's what you have to do. If they get to you, they win
2006-08-19 20:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can't "have" you put anywhere- they'd have to convince a JUDGE who would talk to you personally.
If they're bumming $ off you already then there's no WAY they could hire a lawyer to pull THAT off...tell them to "talk to the hand"
2006-08-19 20:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t hate them, be nice to them, even when they hate you, tell them life is short and they must accept you! I know it is hard, but just love them.
2006-08-19 20:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by beatrix1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married to hate any in-laws. but in your case, i'm sorry to hear that
2006-08-19 20:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by swimchic2807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋