2006-08-19 12:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it
2006-08-19 12:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women make the mistake and say well I've been with him for this amount of time and he has done this and that. My question to you would be...... Do you think this is what you are worth and if so why? If he loves you then he would've cheated on you. In a situation like that you have to look at the relationship. It is a reason he cheated and I am not saying it is your fault because it is not. Maybe he was not happy and if that is the case then he should have been a man a told you so instead of cheating on you.Bottom line no one can tell you what to do you have to make that choice your self. To each is own.
2006-08-19 19:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by fire84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you happy in the relationship; did you two have fun together; did you talk about things; did he make you laugh; does he have qualities you want in a man, like being romantic, helping out around the house, etc.? Six years is a fairly long time to invest in a relationship. I would suggest you evaluate all the pros and cons about being with this man (the affair aside) and if there are still some pretty great pros, give it another shot, but only after you are sure he understands how you feel about the betrayal and that he clearly understands you would not tolerate it again. You might get hurt again, but you might find you can make your relationship stronger than ever and find happiness with this man.
2006-08-19 19:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by CHERYL E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you have to find out what was the reason for him cheating.I am tired of hearing how men say it just happened or something we woman did. Second is he worth it,? overall are you happy wit him, and have you for giving him to the fullest? Because if you did not it is going to be a mess you are always gonna be wondering what he is doing, where he is at and if he is capable of doing it again. 6 years is alot of years with him so I will not tell you not to take him back, I am sure there has to be alot of good memories for you to be asking this question,. All I can say is find out, get to the bottom of it and let him know you are taking him back because he seems sincere but also let him know this is strike two and there is no strike three. I wish you the best, good luck girl
2006-08-19 20:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl no plz dont do that. he will do it again and you have lost trust. once trust is broken its over i know. hes not worth you going thru that. and in the back of your mind you will always think about what he did. just remember always why you left him in the first place. and besides he hasnt had enough time to know that he was a real dog like most men are and its like they always say. if a man hit you once he will do it again. so if he cheats.. you know the rest. just dont do it. you are setting your self up. it seems you are single right now and those old feelings for him has crept up. but dont let him trick you like that.
2006-08-19 19:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watever ppl say, the decision is yours to take. flip the coin and decide for yourself. 6 yrs together.....thats a long time like being married to each other...( i date only for 2 weeks wiz a girl and another 2 weeks wiz another...lol) ....the reason he cheated....it should be known to ya. If you feel the reason he gave is honest and factual, then get him back...if it is the other way, swap him. Its for you to decide abt that. A man can go astray but it always return to its home like a dog.
2006-08-19 19:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You'll always remember him cheating on you and there is always the possibility that he will do it again. If you can't live with him being with other women, then it's time to move on and give yourself what you need!
2006-08-19 19:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. He's coming back out of desperation rather than a love of you. He doesn't respect you and he never will. It's a game to him.
2006-08-19 19:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really up to you i took my baby father back after he cheated on me and now its working better then ever you have to decide if he's worth it or not
2006-08-19 19:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by SXXINEZZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, just get ready for being cheated on!!!
2006-08-19 19:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He cheated. You ended it. Keep it over.
2006-08-19 19:26:46 · answer #11 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋