how do you make a boy jelious???

Question

i don't want to hurt him but i want him to realize that he ost something really good! i see him all the time(we are in the same youth group) i just want to show him that i'm ok w/ out him!! what do i do?



i don't want an answer like"its sooo mean to make him jelious" or somehting like that

Answer 1

really he should know that he wants to be with you just because you are not there. Its not about making him jealous but just be yourself, not flirting with people but just let him see what he is missing. If he is missing it then you will be happy he came back, If he comes back because you had to play a game to get him that cant make you feel as good as knowing he came back on his own..

Answer 2

You know, the best thing may be to do absolutely nothing. Guys catch on real quick that a girl's TRYING to make them jealous (not jelious btw....just though I'd help you with that also :)), and it doesn't really affect us (in fact it just pisses us off). If you TRULY want to make him jealous (and I'm completely honest with you here), totally forget about him romantically and go after other people. Let him know (by your actions, not words) that you aren't going to wait around for him. That's the most effective way....by being totally subtle.

I should also warn you that he may not be jealous no matter what you do, so it's not a good idea to try and make him jealous simply because it could hurt you more when he doesn't get jealous. Also, you could end up really hurting someone else who didn't do anything wrong just because you want to send a message to the first guy. As a guy who's been used to make someone else jealous before, it hurts.....A LOT. And it's something that I've never forgotten.

Hope I've helped, and good luck!!

Answer 3

Worry about your own life. Don't dwell in the past and don't create any negative karma for yourself by playing on the jealousy of others.

Concentrate on your next relationship and always think positive. Rather than wasting your energy thinking of negative things you can do, visualize a successful relationship with the next person. Visualize yourself happy and wish happiness to your ex as well. You will find the results much, much better that way.

Remember, negative thoughts--just like the chickens always come home to roost--always come back to you sevenfold. You do not want to mess with your own karma like that, trust me. Even if you don't believe in that, don't try your luck.

I've been going to meditation class regularly since January, after a bad relationship in which the girl was physically and emotionally abusive to me; I wish her the best every day--I never felt any ill feelings toward her after I left her anyway, but the meditation has helped me focus my energies on positive things: Having less guilt about leaving her, and stop feeling sorry for her, and such--and I do have to say I'm a much happier person today than I was eight months ago.

Answer 4

well that's easy,
if you have a cell phone always be attached to it like you are waiting for a call from 'someone', you can even agree with your friend to call you at a certain time when he is around, also be very happy and even laughing on the call and sound like you are agreeing on something.
also you can try pretending that you are busy writing something in your note book, or even get a book that is very sophisticated and pretend reading it.
you can agree with one of your male friends 'one which he doesn't know' to drop you off or wait you after classes.
always be elegant with what you are wearing and the way you dress and your make up too, change something in your appearance, you know like when you are in love you would just look different.
try going to a hair dresser or something and do your hair and nails,someone will sure notice that.
never hang around him that much, always move here and there and be full of energy, believe me, he will be too jealous and wanting to be around you.
Hope i helped =)

Answer 5

If you want to make a boy jealious you should go out with a guy. Not any guy someone that THE BOY is familiar with. You should go out with him for a couple of days and if he's starting to pay attention to you that means he likes you.

Answer 6

it's not mean. it's just a waste of time and energy. i mean, why bother if the guy's such an idiot that he couldn't appreciate you?

instead, go out with your friends, flirt, and be happy that you're single and don't have to worry about putting up with that loser!

when he sees that you don't care about him, he may want you back. don't take him back. he doesn't deserve you, remember?

there are more attractive and more interesting guys out there- all you have to do is look!

^_^

Answer 7

Make sure your seen by every body. Dressing nice fancy sluty what ever your type no offence. Flirt with him like nothing has changed and also with other guys too. Make sure he knows that he lost something good, keep him guessing and chasing you. Good luck babe hope it works

Answer 8

go out with a different boy flirt laugh look really pretty
just all of the things boys want you should have
and he'll get jelous
yea i know how to do it b/c i've brooke up and got back together with my exboyfriend 10 times! so yea i know and all but one time he asked me out! so yea

Answer 9

Go with someone else, boys get jealous very easy. Make sure you look happy with the person your with.

Answer 10

im 13 are u lol well get a new boyfreind i havent one lol hope u not too old 4 me but since u said youth club u cant be im 13 and haent a gf lol