how can i attract more people into my life ? i feel lonely?

Answer 1

U can always attract ppl

Answer 2

what I do is I go out to the clubs, ounce's a week. i do things to make feel better first. I like go an get my nails done, pick out a out news cloths, and do my hair just right.

Answer 3

Start by getting out more? Away from the computer and out to the mall or wherever? Just a thought...

Answer 4

Here's a simple way to do that.

Be friendly, talk to more people, even if you don't know them, just say hi, walk up and ask people anything you want.

It works, go for it.

Answer 5

You didn't mention your approximate age -- Are you still in school? College? Out of school and in the work world? At home with kids?

First, know that you're not alone. Everyone feels lonely at times and at all different stages of life.

There was a recent study which revealed that almost half of the men and women in the United States feel that at times they don't have anyone that they could really talk to about close personal matters and one or no truly close friend. So, realize that there are a huge number of people out there who may be looking for a friend!

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Next, it's important to know that -- YES -- emphatically YES, you can attract more people into your life.

But how?

There are actually some very simple steps to follow to start to bring more people into your life whose company you will enjoy and who will enjoy being with you.

Before we get started, take an objective look at yourself. Make sure that you are the best that you can be. Take the time to dress nicely, make sure that personal grooming is tops, and that you look your best. (You know, the basics -- smell nice, use deoderant/ mouthwash / clean hair / clean clothes, all that stuff.)

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Then, it's important to take some time to figure out who you are, what you love to do, what interests you, what you find to be fun. Get a journal, a simple notebook, or a pad of paper and start to jot down some thoughts.

Think about what you have enjoyed doing at any time in the past. What interests you? What has been fun to you? What things haven't you done yet that might be fun to learn or to try?

Do you like music? Pets? Children? Sports? Being outdoors? Being indoors? Reading? Writing? Plays? Are you good with crafts? Cooking? Exercising - walking, jogging, swimming, bicycling, rollerblading? Card games?

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Next, look in your local newspaper and start paying attention to notices posted in different places -- libraries, grocery stores, sport stores, music stores, etc. -- to see what types of activities there may be in your area.

Since you are obviously good on the computer and with the Internet, type in key words which describe the activity into Yahoo along with your state and/or towns in your area. See if there are groups or individuals who are doing what you enjoyed doing or think you would like to try in the future. Email them or call and ask questions -- get more information about the groups.

Call your local United Way or other nonprofits and ask about volunteering for activities where there will be other people also volunteering at the same time. This is a GREAT way to meet people and feel terrific about yourself at the same time.

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Try more than one group and activity so you can sample different things and meet many different people. I know of local theatres and art museums which use volunteers to help them out. The volunteers get to meet other people and get in for free!

If you are interested in the environment or love pets or want to help people who are ill -- there's the Sierra Club, local animal shelters and rescue groups, or even your local hospital. You can help children or adults or seniors.

With each of these approaches, you will have things to talk about because your common interest is what is bringing you together!

Volunteering to help others who are less fortunate and in need, will help you to take the focus off of your self and focus on those who need you.

Here are some additional web pages about making new friends... and keeping them!

"Making and Keeping Friends - A Self Help Guide"
http://www.mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/publications/allpubs/SMA-3716/guidelines.asp

"Making and Keeping Friends - Keeping Your Friendships Strong"
http://www.mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/publications/allpubs/SMA-3716/guidelines.asp

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People today have few people who will really sit and listen to them without judgment and without a need to try to "solve their problems," and just accept them.

If you can develop this skill -- to really listen to people to ask them questions and just listen and be there for them -- and be genuine about it, if you are positive and upbeat, if you respect others and let them know you think they're great, they will be drawn to you!

When people feel good about themselves around a particular person, they will want to be around that person more!

Just remember to be positive and genuine and yourself.

You're a terrific person -- now, just follow some of these steps and not only will you attract more people into your life, but you will find that they are the kind of people you want surrounding you.

YOU CAN DO IT! GO FOR IT! I'm rooting for you!

Answer 6

you should try taking some classes, part time job or hitting the clubs on weekends ...

Answer 7

Open the portals.be sweet....
Close ya mouth....let the eyes speak
smile....but not laugh.....dress and gait
will also appeal.

Answer 8

Just be your self I think everybody has alot to offer.

Answer 9

Get out and have some fun.

Answer 10

Be more confidence about yourself but not too bold.