Help?? Problem???

Question

Okay theres this boy and he asked my friend out and she said no. so the next day he asked me if i like him and i was shy but i said no. i kinda do like him but i'm not serious about it. now my friends think i'm going out with him cuz of rumors but its not true. at the end of the day he gave me a hug and i was surprised. so what should i do my friend is going to be mad at me for going out with him but when he gave me that hug it felt like he really like me? should i talk to her? or what i'm so confused help please??
i think she likes him but she has a boyfriend already and she rejected this boy and he doesn't want her anymore. i know friends r more special that is why i'm asking should i talk to her first?

yeah she kinda is a player....lol

the only reason she isn't going out with him is cuz she thinks if she goes out with him her boyfriend will beat him up so she said no to him

Answer 1

Yea you might just think he really likes you
but think
if he asked your friend out then asked you out the next day
after being regected! you know!
it is the beging of the school year if your still in school
take things slow
you will know if you like him
just don't go and ruin a friendship
so with your friend i would just tell her that the rumors arent true
and if she believes random people
over you
then that isn't a really good friendship.
but just talk to her
tell her that he DID ask you out AFTER he asked her out
and tell her that SHE regected him
and that it is HER fault SHE regected him
and she has a b/f
and if she likes him then just be like ok but i might like him too.
ask her if she likes him ennough to break up with this other dude for him and if the answer is no then say then he is open for me
well GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

Definitly talk to her first, she does already have a boyfriend?, If she is your friend she will probably say go for it.
But my problem is just give it a try if your friend says ok go for it, don't jump in totally, it sounds to me like he may not know what he wants, after all he Did ask her first. Go Slow. Good Luck

Answer 3

Talk it out with your friend. Both of ya'll be honest with eachother, about how ya'll feel. Get it out in the open and see for sure what's goin' on. If you don't talk about it, you'll never know. Also, give that guy a chance. He may be really nice. Who knows. You guys may hit it off pretty well.

Answer 4

do you think this guy could be something really serious? if you absolutely like him for sure and you think he feels the same then you should talk to your friend and let her know how you feel. if she turned him down she shouldn't really care if you hook up with him. but if you don't think he's serious then leave him alone because this could potentially damage your relationship with your friend.

Answer 5

look if she said no so don't be confused life is only one time enjoy it and just talk to her and tell her you feelings about him she'll understand if she is a good friend but if she was mad so do what she tells you goodluck.

Answer 6

is your friend trying to get together in a triplet or something

i say try to straighten it out with your friends.....see their sides of the story and you tell them yours

and if that doesnt help or makes it worse its time to move on and try getting some new friends

Answer 7

she has a bf, so go ahead, u don't need to tell her anything but it is your life, now it depends on the kind of friendship u have.

but she has a bf...and u know what ...if u like the guy go ahead! and tell your friend...look i'm going out with ... If she reacts in a negative way...so tellher "I did not know u liked him, u have bf."!
so please explain me so i can understd. u better???

Answer 8

ask him out!!! if your friend likes him she would of dumped her boyfriend already! plus the boy you fancy will just say no to your mate anyway if she asks him out! so go for it!

Answer 9

That depends, is she your best friend? Because like it or not, friends wont allways be friends.

Answer 10

player