Hi, would you hep me with something?

Question

i am a 16 year old boy, i going to be senior this year, i am stragith really. i even got two plaboy magiazes under my bed but i need help. i been cross dressing scene i was in 6 grade, i couldn'y stop. i didn't know that women shirts,shirts, and dresses are so soft and its feels so good. i tryed to stop but i just can't help it. i dont do it everyday but i do it once,twice, or even three times per mouth and i cant stop. help me? is there anyway i can stop this madness of wearing these things?

SORRY , I MEAN TO SAY HELP NOT "HEP"

Answer 1

Okay, so when you wear women's clothes it sets of neurotransmitters which give you a sensation of sexual gratification. You don't seem to appreciate this and you would like to be normal, but your brain can't stop what its doing.

Your choices are (1) practice self-discipline, self denial, and tough it out, or (2) follow your sexual gratification and see where it leads you.

If you follow #1, you will be able to lead a normal healthy life, get married, have children, a good education, a good job, etc... but you will always have this gnawing at the base of your brain. You will probably still have an occasional episode of crossdressing, but you will forever be frustrated. You will have to be satisfied wearing men's nylon pajamas, or some women's lingerie under your men's clothes, or some other part or women's clothing. but you will be able to have a "normal" life, and it will get easier as you get older.

If you follow #2, you will also be frustrated. You will try to do more, to look more feminine, to do better with the make up, to remove your facial hair, to take hormones, to keep trying to achieve something beyond your grasp. As you age it will get more and more difficult to achieve a female image. You will not be happy. You will be lonely. It will lead to a serious state of depression, and perhaps even suicide.

I know there are no good choices, but I definitely prefer #1,

Answer 2

I feel you are serious about this...sometimes, when young men are very close to their mom's, as little boys...they see her as their 'idol'...and in many ways, emulate her...it reminds them of her sweetness, or softness..however, if you were ever abused somewhere down the line, you may be acting out something...something that maybe made you feel safe? I am not sure,..but you need to get in to talk to someone, or even talk it with your mom, if you have a good relationship...let her know that you are not gay, and you don't want to keep doing this, and you don't know why ...please get some help this will hinder you later in life and it is a sin.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Seek medical help. Do not feel shy. Go go go before it's too late..

Else whole life you'll be buying 2 sets of dress. i think u got that...

Answer 5

I sounds like you need to get a girlfiriend. The clothes will feel even better when you rub your hands over them while she's wearing them.

Answer 6

Yes. You do need help. Help that people on Yahoo! Answers are not going to be able to give you. Seek professional help. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.

Answer 7

You should comfortable with your sexuality..You might be just starting to "peak" out of the closet. Doesn't mean your gay or nothin'. You still got time to figure that out.

Answer 8

jsut hang in there man, you will be ok. dont let them make fun of you. i think that cross dressers are sexy and hot with their dress.

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Answer 9

Its normal, alot of guys have gay urges and fantasies.

Answer 10

and you're absolutely sure youre straight???