i have a kinda close friend who dated the girl i had a crush on...i didnt know he liked her too....so they started going out and 3 weeks later they broke up ....i really like her..and i really think she likes me too...shud i ask her out....its been 4 months since they broke up..and im still crushong on her...wut shud i do?
2006-08-19 11:12:48 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. idunno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask your friend if it's OK. If you are really his friend, you will do that.
2006-08-19 11:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by sherry001fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't own her or any rights on her or your life.
She's his Ex for a reason.
I mean if want to be a real good friend, find out if he broke up with her or she with him. But if he broke up with her, it's none of his business who she's going out with.
If she did, see how he still feels about her. If he still wants her, you need to know who has priority in your life, him or her.
But like I said, he has no right over your or her life.
2006-08-19 18:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by stella maris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you respect your friend, you should bring it up with hiim and see if he's fine with it. If you're more interested in possibly pissing your friend off and lusting over a girl, then go for the girl. I think respect is more important. And I think your friend won't care, and then you have one less thing to stress about.
2006-08-19 18:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your buddy-maybe they broke up for a good reason.. Anyways if he says sure I dont care then go ahead and ask her out. BUT listen carefully if he sounds the least bit sad or angry about it DONT DO IT!!!
2006-08-19 18:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go with what the heart tells you man. Never cloud the mind with what the heart already knows.
2006-08-19 19:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron the Great. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR YOU TO DO FIRST IS EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP! IF YOU VALUE IT, THE NEXT THING FOR YOU TO DO IS DISCUSS YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT THE GIRL IN QUESTION AND SEE IF THERE WOULD BE ANY PROBLEMS IN YOUR GOING OUT WITH SAID GIRL. FRIENDSHIP SHOULD BE PLACED FIRST IN THIS.....JUST BE UPFRONT WITH YOUR FRIEND AND GO FROM THERE!
2006-08-19 18:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by edgeston34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i think you shold talk to ur friend and ask him if he still has feelings for the girl and if doesnt then i think itll be okay asking the girl out.
2006-08-19 18:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usally if this person is your friend you should not go on this date but you really can't stop how you feel about those you like or those you love
2006-08-19 18:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is your boy then dont do it. Its an unwritten rule. But if dood is just an associate then step to her and and do what he couldnt.
2006-08-19 18:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Imrickjamesbeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out, but if you really think it will be a promblem you should ask your friend if it is okay.
2006-08-19 18:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Quolaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with my best friend's ex...do it...but ask your frined first
2006-08-19 18:21:19 · answer #11 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋