i went out for the 4th time with a guy, however the 4th time we went out things got a little more intimate, where we hugged and cuddled. The previous times we went out, the guy was always chatting with me trough AIM or the phone. However, after our last date, which was more intimate, this guy has not contacted me yet. What is the problem? does he not like me anymore?
2006-08-19 11:09:51 · 12 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to say for sure, but the intimacy might have made him nervous. He may have enjoyed being physical in that moment, but then later had doubts about becoming committed to a relationship.
It sucks when that happens, but if he flaked out, at least he did you the favor of doing it fairly soon.
But, who knows -- maybe there's another reason for his non-response. You could always send him a short email saying you had a good time and asking if he'd like to go do (activity) with you next weekend. If he doesn't respond, move on.
2006-08-19 11:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you've been speaking previously the first date and now ist basically texts. i might want to assert that he's not that into you. except he's basically authentic shy, yet u comprehend that more desirable helpful then any human beings. attempt no longer being so conscious of his textual content msgs. Use the three to a million rule. a million msg to three of his. and regularly do not answer the questions instantly. Ask him the status of a few random guy that you both comprehend. tell him you want to search for suggestion from with him about something and at the same time as he calls do not even deliver it up. basically discuss different random crap. lol.....shall we us comprehend what occurs...
2016-11-26 02:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how long its been sice he contacted you. Could he be busy? Have you tried contacting him? you say you got more intimate cuddiling,did he try to do more? You reallly dont give enough information for a proper ansewer,The only thing I can suggest is contacting him your self and find out whats going on.
2006-08-19 11:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look im not trying to be mean or anything but i think that guy you went out with wont be calling you any time soon. if was planning on calling you he would have done so already.
2006-08-19 11:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how long its been, I would say that he is trying to cool things down a bit. Why not call him and simply ask?
2006-08-19 11:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound harsh, but one thing I've learned about men is that if they want to see you, they will call. He's lost interest.
2006-08-19 11:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Taffi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he may not like you but you never know??
You never no whats inside a boys head.
but he must be stupid not to answer you
2006-08-19 11:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by guess what? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could mean alot of things,did you give him any eye contact while u was talking to him?if not he senced it and took the hint.
2006-08-19 11:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by carlos71800 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the second answerer. Try it! You can't lose anything.
2006-08-19 11:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him and say hi. Maybe he's shy
2006-08-19 11:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋