Sex good? That all depends. When I fist had sex I was 18 getting ready to turn 19 and it sucked. It sucked for three years. I never had an orgasm with the guy I was with for three years. I couldn't figure out why everyone made it out to be so good and hot. Then I met my husband of 8yrs and it was great. It all depends who your with and if it works for you. The man that I thought sucked had actually turned out to be the best thing in bed for another girl but did nothing for me. I was so in love with him but sex was not sex. Sex isn't the same with each person your with. Sometime it can be great and other times it's just a disappointment. All in all if you haven't had it then wait until your really ready and are with someone you really care for and they care for you. Having sex to soon and with the wrong person can really end up hurting you emotionally.
I hope that when you do have it, that's it's great for you and not a disappointment like mine!
2006-08-24 14:00:48
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answered by Anonymous
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The truth is that sex without emotionally involvement can be good, but you risk sexually transmitted disease because you don't really know your partner. And of course, not knowing your partner means you don't really know what pleases them or they you. If you have sex just for the sake of sex enough times you will end up feeling hollow and used. You pay a great emotional price.
Sex between two people who are in love is much more satisfying. There is more of a total joining - body, heart and soul - that you just can't get with random rutting. Sometimes there's sparks and sometimes it's a comfort union, but the point is that you are there for each other after the sex.
2006-08-19 18:10:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I dont think you have to wait till ur 18, in todays world thats almost inpossible.If you ask all the people who commented I bet only a couple waited till they were 18 if they all say they did they are lying. Sex is great now, because I found my husband and starting a family. I lost my virginity at 15 and It was mostly because I was curious. It hurt the first time but after that it was okay. there were a couple that were awesome and a couple that totally sucked. The most inportant thing is protection.
2006-08-23 06:36:13
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answered by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5
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Yes, sex is enjoyable, physically and emotionally.
You don't have to wait until you are 18, there is no age for your first time or any time. As long as it feels right for you.
You don't have to be in love or a serious relationship to have sex, while that does make it more emotionally fulfilling. Sex for the pure physical enjoyment is fine, as long as it isn't the only way you have sex.
The only one who can determine if it is "good" is you. There are not rules. Everyone is different.
2006-08-19 18:41:18
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answered by sassy_91 4
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G-D or Mother Nature designed us to enjoy sex. Yes, sexual coitus is extremely pleasurable. Man and other highly intelligent creatures are designed to enjoy sex so that we will stay around and care for the pregnant female and the young when it comes.
By the way, not in all societies does the father nurture the young. In some ancient and possibly modern societies, family members of the mother care for the infant in the sure knowledge that it carries part of their genes.
2006-08-19 18:11:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Sex is really good if your really comfortable with your partner and you really love them or really like them, and it could just be really good if your partner really knows what they are doing to make you feel good. It really can make you feel good if they know what they are doing. but it's better if you love that person, it's like you have so much chemistry that when your body connect it feels so GOOD
It can really suck to and your just scream "o baby" "o baby" just to make them feel good but thats when you need to change up the positions and everything or maybe even partner
2006-08-25 15:36:30
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answered by krisstyle_hg 1
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NO sex for u learn to read and write first enjoy your childhood ask college educated questions and be someone instead of worrying about getting your rocks off , its not all its cracked up to be little girl!
2006-08-25 14:41:58
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answered by ? 3
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SEX IS GREAT! But underage sex can lead to someone arrest and very long inprisonment so wait til you 18 and even than us protection for your sake cause aids is very real!
2006-08-25 15:34:51
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answered by riri 2
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There are worse things in the world.
It's not so much hot and steamy as ...well, sweaty. And you may have to talk to her afterwards.
I once said to my wife "Lay there and moan", and she said "This ceiling needs painting"
2006-08-19 18:04:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Ok I'm telling your parents you are online asking questions about sex. You are so in trouble!!!1
2006-08-25 13:38:32
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answered by *ICE* 3
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