He cheats on her often I even know the girls he does it with. She nows of at least one girl. But I don't know if she is doing it out of spite or what.
2006-08-19 10:42:58 · 59 answers · asked by SKC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the guy's your friend, why would you even consider having sex w/his wife? The fact that he cheats is irrelevant -- that should have nothing to do w/your decision. Say no -- she'll find someone else to have sex with.
2006-08-19 10:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by rrsal77 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She probably is doing it out of spite if she already knows one of the girls and she's trying to get even with him by having sex with u his friend. If you truly value your friendship with your friend don't do it. Even though he's cheating on her two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-08-19 10:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is doing it out of spite to get back at him. That is the ultimate betrayal to sleep with his friend or family member. And just because he cheats on her doesn't make it right for her to cheat on him. If you have sex with her you will risk losing your friend. So before you do it, decide if it's worth it.
2006-08-19 10:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs don't make a right. Think twice before you make any kind of play for your friends wife. Cheating or not. If/when the sh** hits the fan and it comes out in the open, you don't want to be one of the ones in the middle of something ugly. Your friend won't care that he has been fooling around. Jealousy will overpower judgement and he won't care your reasons or hers for doing it. good luck
2006-08-19 11:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably is doing out of spite. If you value friendship I think the best thing to do is not to cheat with her, don't get involved in something that you might regret later.
2006-08-19 10:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by joanna_m2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are saying that he cheats on her is an excuse for you!If he is really your friend, you won't do it!You don't wanna be a home wrecker,do you?
What is he doing it's not your problem. You are nobody to judge him,or try to fix their family problems. But now it seems that you are taking advantage of the situation and you don't wanna be the "of spite" one!....
2006-08-19 10:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, right...it's all cupcakes and lemonade until your friend shows up with a shotgun. You bet he's going to find out...the minute she wants to tear his guts out she's going to tell him what you did. So you'll have a livid former friend wanting some payback.
You might as well go hug a big, fat hornet's nest.
Oh, and another thing, you'll never really know when he's coming for you...
2006-08-19 11:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by n0witrytobeamused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend, ask him why he does all those cheating to his wife. If he is really your friend, maybe he'll confide on you. And if you are a person with a sound mind, you will not do it with your friend's wife. You should at least try to help them solve this problem, not help them create another one! Got my point?
2006-08-19 10:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she looks coo then hit it. But realize that she is doing it out of spite and when all there issues air out your named will be right there. So the real question is can you whoop her husbands azz if your break his wife off.
2006-08-19 10:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... I would say try and figure it out with both of them, serperately. Don't let them know about how they're both cheating before you know why, if you really wanna help. But, so you don't really get in trouble, talk with which ever one of them you're closer to.
And if they have stupid reasons for doing it, put them on Dr. Phil.
2006-08-19 10:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by gracie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋