well the thing is this guy is married. says he just wants sex.. what is wrong with that. I never had a relationship like that before. I think it would be kinda cool .. cause there are no strings. The only thing is he is married. but he has no means of letting her know. Kinda don't want the drama ...??
2006-08-19 10:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by motherlyisis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just make sure he buys u something very expensive every time u hook up.
2006-08-19 10:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!! :o) I suppose it might help you to find an answer if you turned the tables around. You were married and YOUR husband was looking for a 'no strings attached' sexual relationship with someone. How would that make YOU feel? Besides - in spite of what some people think - there is no such thing as a 'no strings attached' sexual relationship. Unless you're both robots - it would be impossible NOT to form some sort of emotional bond. And 'emotional bonds' are less like 'string' and more like 'rope'. And in the case of having sex with a married person - that 'rope' can end up around not only your heart - but also your neck. Don't get caught up in that mess. Besides - how great a guy can he be? He IS quite willing to cheat on his wife. Craig!! :o)
2006-08-19 17:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends divorced her husband because he cheated on her. A year later and she's still very angry about being deceived by the scumbag. But go right ahead and be a party to the same emotional kick in the teeth for some other woman -- as long as there's no drama for YOU, it's totally cool.
2006-08-19 17:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting involved with a married man means leaving your feelings outside the door. No phone calls on birthdays. No visits on holidays. No being available when you want him. Yet you still have to listen to all his wife and kid tales. If you don't want the drama, find an unattached guy to fill your needs.
2006-08-19 17:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry but no matter what happens having sex wit a married man is just wrong. Anyway, just a sexual relationship gets boring after a while.
2006-08-19 17:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. I had a one-night fling like that; I told my girlfriend about it, I didn't want there to be any complications or drama. My girlfriend was more cool about it than the other woman; she ended up wanting more out of it than just a one night fling. It all ended up working out eventually, but I'd definitely say it's best to be honest with everyone involved, and make sure that it really is just about havnig some physical fun. The last thing you want to discover is that he's getting some level of emotional fulfillment from you that he's not getting at home, and that's why he's having the fling.
You also might consider asking him why he's looking for sex outside his relationship. Don't be accusatory about it, just find out the facts. In my case, my girlfriend has a very low sex drive, and indicated she wouldn't be upset if I went outside the relationship for sexual gratification, so long as I was honest about it, used protection, and got myself tested for STDs, including AIDs afterwards just to be safe. You want to make sure that he's not going to be looking to you for ongoing support, or repeat visits, and you want to make sure he's responsible enough to use protection, for everyone's sake. But as long as he's open and honest about what he's doing, and he uses protection, and is very clear that he's just looking for sex, I'd say go for it. In my case, I'd prefer it if his wife knew as well, just to avoid any nasty unpleasant drama later on, but that's just my preference--your choices and decisions will obviously be different. :)
Good luck with it!
2006-08-19 17:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by mpetach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends where your morals lay. In todays society its almost a given that a partner is going to stray. So being in line with your friend with beneies is always a good start. Good communication is the key here. And dont listen to these christain douche bags that think they are all high and mighty! There husbands, wifes and grand parents have all cheated one way or another.
2006-08-19 17:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Caliraised 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, don't do it! DONT DO IT! You think it'll be ok cause you can keep your emotions in check, there are no strings, bla bla bla....etc Your emotions will put you in check and you'll feel soo used. Find your own man, wait for a man to find you! THis has disaster written all over it. just my opinion as a guy that knows better than to think I could just use a woman without her getting hurt.
2006-08-19 17:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by rick_james 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away. usually with the friends with benefits, someone always gets attached. And someon always gets hurt. But you don't want to mess with a man that is married. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. Good luck!
2006-08-19 17:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you getting your groove on, but doing it with a married man is just asking for trouble, especally if the wife finds out.
There are tons of single horny guys out there, why not just pic one of them to have fun with?
2006-08-19 17:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means no!! maybe if he wasn't married i would say go for it if you were sure that you wouldn't put your heart in it and you could let go when it was ended but if he he's married stay far, far, far, away from him!!!! nothing but heartache for you, him, and the wifey.
2006-08-19 17:33:07 · answer #11 · answered by candiegirl4582 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋