please help!!
2006-08-19 10:10:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Oh, lord! How I wish I could help you, but I can't.
Help comes from within.
Have you seen your doctor........
Have you addressed the issues that have caused this feeling of self-loathing.
I hear that by cutting yourself, at least it's you that has control over the pain you are inflicting.
Big hugs. I don't know if that helps. xx
2006-08-19 10:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, cutters don't feel in control of their lives, that there is a numbness and unreality surrounding them. Cutting pulls them into the here and now. It says I feel, therefore I am.
Cutting is an addiction like any other addiction. The way to stop is to break the cycle. Easier said then done I know...
Most people cannot break an addiction themselves. They need support and you know what that means.
The first step is to reach out to someone. No one can do that for you. By doing that you are taking back true control of your life. But it's totally up to you.
I hope you do it.
2006-08-19 10:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to sumone!!!! u have people that care about u rite??? u need to sit down and really think.....why are u cutting urself????and is it worth it??? is it solving anything??? hurting ur body does nothin good for u.....u should have people around u for most of the time that way if anything happens they can stop u.....i know this stuff becuz i've had a couple of experiences with my friends bein cutters.....you need to have a confidence that u can stop.....have a positive attitude.....also try rewarding urself whenever u get rid of an urge to hurt urself....u gotta be really really motivated to stop and do what's best for you!!!! cuttin urself is very bad....someday u could end up killin urself and that's not good at all....ending ur pain the easy way out only creates more worse pain for others...the people that care about you.....the people that love you....if u go, people will miss you....well this is all i can say for now....i hope this helps u a lot and inspires u to stop....
2006-08-19 10:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a condition that you suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder. This disorder is dangerous if not diagnosed and left untreated. Please look it up on the web. I have it. I don't cut myself, but I hate myself tremendously. I am overweight, that is how I take it out on myself. Cutting can lead to worse things, hon. Do your parents know? Are are you an adult? Please get some help. There is something in your heart that is not right, and your brain as well. You need to reach out for people to help you. We can only give you advice here, honey, you have to make the decision to get help from the mental health doctors. You can IM me if you want.
2006-08-19 11:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by rach_cast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you have made a brave move tonight coming on here & sharing to be honest I don't know how to help exactly my daughter used to self harm & I just hugged her & loved her I still do of course I can tell you she has stopped now. You need to tell some one you really love & trust maybe your Gran? Then take it from there just one day at a time I really do feel for you I am sending you a big hug XX I wish I could do more God bless night night
2006-08-19 10:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by wizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a cutter too, the best advice I can give is tell someone you trust, tell your parents, your teachers or your friends. Accept the help they want to give.
When you are tempted to cut, just tell yourself that you are worth more than this.
2006-08-19 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by karruttopp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay interest, the great element is to attempt now to not be on my own frequently...flow out with friends as a lot as you could and stay faraway from sharp products that would get you questioning. The extra exciting you've and the further you' get out is the further your ideas received't imagine about reducing and melancholy.... in case you could not do this i sugggest search for advice from with a therapist or a well being care service. Dont worry it will be fantastic
2016-11-30 20:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be a cutter. and you know it passes after time...and all it does is leave you with scars that wont go away. think of this way: what does cutting do for you? ABSOLUTELLY NOTHING! why? cause you releive your pain for few minutes...you bleed you might feel better seeing the blood..but what does that do...nothing. it wont take away your problems...or your anger...or sadness...so when you do get the urge...call someone...or just scribble on a paper with a pecil...or it helps...MIGHT help acually to take a red marker and just draw on your hand with it...to make it look like blood...or just write in your journal online...cause that keeps your hands busy...try one of these
Xanga.com
i do it when i get the urge...i dont think just write for about 20 mins maybe and it goes away.
or go into a public place...that way you wont do it cause people are around.
Good luck
Hope this helped
2006-08-19 18:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by krissy_pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is hard to stop, so you really need to get help. Develop some coping strategies. When you feel the urge to cut, maybe do a crossword puzzle to take your mind off the cutting and do that until the impulse passes. Hope that helps some.
2006-08-19 10:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by crysy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a therapist quick who knows about this good. get on the phone and call anonymously saying "I cut myself but I want a therapist who specializes in this type of thing." Get in quick. I am sure u r a beautiful person. Imagine how u would feel cutting someone else. U can stop. Love, humanresourcesman
2006-08-19 10:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋