Muslim Female Premarital and Extramarital Sexuality?

Question

I asked this Q before. I received replies detailing personal lives (2 of which led to interesting ongoing correspondence) but other than 1 reply of hearsay nobody actually answered my Q so far.

I try again: Assuming Muslim Fs have normal sexual urges and there is comparable hypocrisy among them to that of Fundamentalist conservative Christian Fs how do Muslim Fs (other than Shi'ite divorcees and widows, who are allowed, even for money, to have "temporary" husbands) manage to have nonmarital/extramarital experience and what are the statistics? Is there just a lot of secret trysting (after all, the news is full of stories of honor killings, honor rapes, and sharia and civil prosecutions of Fs for their sexuality in Muslim countries and Muslim enclaves in non-Muslim countries)? So there must be activity. Is it scientifically measured? I have searched the internet and also checked for books at 2 university libraries but have found no real actual sociological data.

I do not have the courage to ask at local mosques or Muslim cultural centres.

A day has gone by; I've received 12 additional replies. A couple just are just smart-alecky from a**h*les but of the others still there are none that actually answer my question, which I think is easy to understand but two of the apparently sincere answerers say is not! Let me put it another way: Non-marital sex is equally condemned and constantly preached against within both Muslim and Fundamentalist conservative Christian faiths (save for Shi'ite widows and divorcees). There is scientific survey data
about the amount and types of sexual activity and hypocrisy among practicing Fundamentalist conservative Christian women (and men). Where is the same data for Muslims?

Answer 1

i don't really hav an answer to ur question, but i do know a source wheer u can get an honest answer....
http://qa.sunnipath.com/step_one.asp
on thsi site, they take questions every month, so do keep checking and ask ur question there, u'll get an honest answer....

Answer 2

since they are little girls they are thaught that extramarital and premarital sexual activity is a sin and that they will suffer tremendously if they not follow the religion and they can even be killed for it!! and believe they have seen other women die because of it so i think they are a little bit afraid too. the muslim men have a great respect for muslim women so they would never try to do anything with any women... we all know we need sexuality in our lives is something normal so i think maybe they just masturbate(i'm not trying to offend any mmuslin by the way,) ..... i have seen muslim people in this country especially the young generations and they seem nopt to follow the religion like their parents..... in the us there is more liberty i guess and this makes them doubt about their religion ... i don't think i answered your question but i tried based on what i've have seen in my muslim friends.

Answer 3

I'm not sure U'll get a sensible answer on here.
& I doubt the Mosque leaders would want 2 give U an honest set of figures.
Islam as a religion is equal 2 women/men but Unfortunately Sharia Law is usually not 2 Female friendly.

Answer 4

I'm sure that secret trysts take place among Muslims. Keep in mind that Islam as a whole does not openly advocate extra- and pre-marital sex like a secular culture would. So if there are any statistics, they will be censored in Islamic circles, to keep it in the closet, so to speak.

Answer 5

i can't clearly understand ur question. but i assume you mean how a muslim female practice her normal sexual urges.

just to let you know, i am a guy who is virgin. not because i have problem with my looking or my sexual ability. but because i fear God. so it's not only women who go thru this, this desires and whatever on the earth is a test to see which one is strong in faith, and which one is strong enough to fight his own needs for the sake of God. a true believer will say whatever God says shall be.

away from all this rabbish talk (honor killings, honor rapes....) i am not sure what is your motivation of bringing this up, you don't see this happening in every muslim house. the answer for your question is if she can't get married, then she has to be patient for the sake of God. and she will be giving her reward from God more than the double.

Answer 6

I think they manage it the same way as Christian females. If things are done in secrecy, you can't really get trustworthy data.

Not to mention, Muslims censor everything and you only know what they wish you to know.

Answer 7

you comprehend i in my view do no longer see the energy of this question. i do no longer even comprehend why it relatively is a query. How Muslim women persons take care of it is their business company. and would I remind you that it relatively is no longer purely Muslim that be afflicted by violence approximately their sexual desires. Many different women persons international be afflicted by gang rapes, killings as a results of fact of adult males they have slept with etc. and function it bypass unrecognized of their communities.

Answer 8

In some countries the punishment for this act is "shuli chadana". I hope you know what this word means. they will force a sharp pointed road through your anal pore and screw it. then they will make stand it upright with you hanging on it. then they will wait for you to come down as the road piers through your whole body. Meanwhile they will stone you.so dear think about it.

Answer 9

In my personal capacity I have heard that alot of extramrital sex goes on with men dressing in womens clothes visiting Muslim women. That seems obvious to me.

Answer 10

Female gential mutilation is routinely performed on Muslim girls for the express purpose of removing their desire for sex. If it hurt all the time, would you want to do it?