I have to live even when I know what to expect.
I am not wanting to make any presure on you.
I have nowhere to go except on Internet. I have already been on many places and they are tired of me.
2006-08-19 09:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hello dear Alexander!
Well, life is good or miserable according to our thinking! Hundred years ago, people were suffering from birth to death, compared to our lives now!
What I would advice you to do is to visit and holistic or alternative doctor! If there is a Chinese doctor, see him and let his wisdom assist you!
2006-08-19 22:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you're having such a hard time! Personal problems and loneliness is a growing problem in "this modern world". Sometimes focusing on other things than problems can help someone to get some new positive experiences.
Some people get good help from professionals like psychiatrist, church or hospitals etc. But others need most simple things like a better social life, less time alone and more friends.
It might not be the right thing for you, but some things that has helped many people is
-Moving together with others if they live alone,
-Having a daily activity to go to, like work or school etc.
-Getting new social contacts or even moving to a different city or country.
I wish you good luck!
2006-08-19 10:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say your diagnosis but I'm guessing it is some sort of depression.
I am bipolar and can tell you from my personal experience and that of my husband that medication is the difference between living a life and being in a deep dark hole in the ground.
Even if you have taken meds before that didn't work DO NOT GIVE UP! There are new medications being introduced on the market all of the time and it may be you just have not been on the right medication. Better living through chemistry (the old Dow Chemical Co. slogan) is what I say.
You said that you want to know why you should have to bear such a life even when you know what to expect. I'm an old lady (52 y.o.) and I can tell you that the ONLY thing you can "expect" is for things to change. In other words, don't give up. Things may not get better right a way but they will get different. And for most people willing to stick with it and not give up, things usually, eventually, get better. Hang in there babe, life can be worth living! Good Luck!
p.s. -- to those of you who made rude comments, I wish for you the Hell this person is living in. Maybe you will learn to be compassionate of others and their problems. SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 10:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by lhart46 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u believe in God the beauty of it all is that only God knows what will happen 2 u tommorow. what couldnt happen all ur life could happen tommorrow through God. Dont give up we all have periods in our life where we feel alone and misunderstood, but know that u are not alone! Try talking to someone at church, become a part of a group, help others, it will help u to know that u are not the only person who feels that way, and most of all testify, tell others how u feel ,and help eachother through it. I will be praying 4 u, Only God can give u rest....
2006-08-19 09:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume your life will be worse? There are many, many different medicines out there. Maybe you just need to be adamant about finding the ones that work for you. Stand up and insist on medical services that genuinely meet your needs. That is more productive than cyberspace chat. It certainly was for me.
2006-08-19 10:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not state enough about your problem so therefore you must be very stressed over it > perhaps you need to go to your pastor or to a pastor for counseling , pills or not always the answer as you seem to already realized but i do hope you will reach out to a physical body near you who you can trust to help you . i wish you could have written more about your problem but i do pray the lord will lead & guide you in the right directions for i know he will supply all of your needs & he cares about you & there are plenty of other people out there who do, too. may god lead you to where he would have you go in his name !!
2006-08-19 10:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by joyous believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pills can help. I have a friend and she has been having a depression for ten years. The pills help her to have a normal life.
2006-08-19 22:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Karolina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are searching for so much help. I agree with the guy that said to start praying! Do you know God? Have you ever asked him for help with putting concessions on HIm? I have already prayed for you today, why not pray for yourself. You e-mail has not been set up yet or I would e-mail you personally.
If you want to talk or start learning who God is then e-mail me.
2006-08-19 09:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps people wouldnt be tired of you if you took some responsibilty for yourself. life sucks if you let it. you dont want to worry your mom but you dont want to go to the hospital then go to a psychologist. they dont give meds they make you talk abot your issues. seriously i think you just want attention.
2006-08-19 09:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jake S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the pills.
2006-08-19 09:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋