I don't even want her around my family. Thats just how I feel. I know she has a right to be gay but don't i have a right not to have it around me and my family?
2006-08-19 09:48:27 · 17 answers · asked by koschak2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You may not believe it's wrong to be gay..and my belief is that it IS wrong.
2006-08-19 09:55:58 · update #1
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2006-08-19 10:01:25 · update #2
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2006-08-19 10:01:34 · update #3
I agree....I wouldn't want a gay brother or sister around my children either. Thats the life they chose..let them have it! You have every right to feel that way. Your new family is what matters now..if thats what your talking about. The gay community get all upset when we wont listen to their opinion but when we want to share our opinion they start telling you what an aweful person you are for your beliefs..go figure!
2006-08-19 10:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life learn to be tolerant you are not the only person in the world ,and you have no right to ostracize your sister .just because she did not turn out what is socially acceptable for you.
your family is also your sisters family
she has as much right to be there as you do.
if anything a family should be supportive ,of their members and not act spite full as you are doing ,it must be difficult enough already for your sister outside the family.
glad you are not my brother.
nothing to do with your sister being gay ,it is the principle
2006-08-19 09:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is going to decide on what her lifestyle is going to be. Regardless on how you feel about that morally, you don't have control over how she lives her life. The one thing you have control over is deciding what is more important to you...Maintain a lifelong relationship with your sister, despite your differences? or Spend your life without your sister, because you're uncomfortable? Gay or straight, a siblings sexuality really has very little to do with you and your life. It would seem family is very important to you. Your sister is a part of your family.
2006-08-19 10:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sister does have a right to be gay. And you dont have any right too exclude her from family gatherings. If you don't like it you should be the one who does not attend. If by "I dont want her around my family" you mean you dont want her around your husband and kids you definetely do have the right to say that. You have the right to tell her she is not allowed in your home and not allowed to speak to your children if she sees them in public. But you do not have the right to say she's not allowed for example, at your parents house. If you dont like it you can choose not to go to your parents house.
2006-08-19 09:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Peri 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quite frankly I would imagine she feels exactly the same way about you. I suggest that you learn a little first. It's obvious to me that you have a serious problem with biggotry, hatred, and fear. Saying "that's just how I feel" is only an excuse you are making for yourself. Please see a psychiatrist to help you learn to deal with, and do away with, your extreme fear.
2006-08-19 09:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You clearly do not love your sister. I honestly hope that she feels the same way about you. It is sickening that you would try and turn her own family against her. You are disgusting.
2006-08-19 09:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Elvendra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love her and accept her anyway. She is your sister, after all. You may not like the way she chooses to live her life, but you still must love and accept her.
2006-08-19 10:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Meg♪ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just love her from afar. Everyone has the right to live how they want. You have the right ot be angry, just as she has the right to be the way she is.
2006-08-19 09:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to your opinion, of course.
But she is your sibling.
She is not contagious, you know.
Unless she's got you thinking you may, after all, be gay!!
Please be a bit more tolerant.
2006-08-19 09:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really dont love your sister at all, then fine. You can disown her, sounds to me like she will be better off without you.
2006-08-19 09:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋