I dont want to have an HIV wife cause i dont want my child to have HIV
2006-08-19 09:43:53 · 33 answers · asked by ivanskorpion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats kind of a difficult question.Just say hey why dont we go get checked and make sure we both dont have something.
2006-08-19 09:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well by the time you are that close to someone you should have no problem bringing up the subject. you can't just ask every girl you meet. But if you are thinking sleeping with this person then you better ask. After my divorce while I was dating my present husband and we knew that we were getting serious he asked me. he said "Since you have found out all those things about your ex, do you think it is possible he could have caught something? Do you think you could have been at risk?" He was curious and I was glad. I told him I had a series of blood tests done at my last yearly appointment just to be safe and everything was just fine. Not to mention that the last year i was married our relationship was non existent. I t never hurts just to bring it up in casual conversation. Most people will volunteer the truth. You should never sleep with anyone unless you know what kind of partners she had before. That would be foolish.
2006-08-19 09:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions and communication are the cornerstones in a relationship. You need to talk about it. If you think she will react in a immature way then I don't think she is "ready" to be in such a committed relationship. Be mature about it and just sit her down and ask her if she has ever been tested for HIV before and you would like to know if you and her could go get tested so your relationship could flourish. Good Luck!!
2006-08-19 09:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are planning to do her and havent ask her to get tested it is ur moral code and ethics befor eu do anything. planned paretnhood tests for free.. offer to go together as now they test guys as well fro vd and aids free... a lot dotn even think they have it as they believe the guy or woman when they say oh i dont do it much or oh i have nothing wrong with me.. so wise up- i have one partner and still get tested every 6 months why? ya cant trust anyone
2006-08-19 09:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask when the last time she was tested when you meet her. If it's been any longer than 6 months to a year, ask her to come with you so that way you can both be tested. Reassure her your clean also and that way you both know.
2006-08-19 09:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Richie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is someone you want to have sex with ... both of you need to be tested before you fly without protection. If this is someone you already have sex with ... both of you get tested now, stay monogamous and tested again in 3 months. This is the time for honesty and if she refuses .... RUN Away!
2006-08-19 09:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, do u have HIV?? and if you don't ask her has she been tested there is nothing wrong with asking this woman her status.. that is the only safe way
2006-08-19 09:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by purplepiggy05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her tested for all STD's and HIV before you have s*x with her.
2006-08-19 09:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a question that should be very direct. If you are about to sleep someone whom you want to be with maybe you should both go get checked together it takes the presssure off the other person.
2006-08-19 09:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a better idea. Instead of asking, have you AND her go to get tested together. That way you won't insult her and she will know if you are clean as well.
2006-08-19 09:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by John16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋