we there this girl i meet a few months ago only just one day she messaged me. and now she totally fell for me i dont' know wat to do because i know this is an impossitble relationship it will never work out she lives like in NY and i live in california and plus i don't do those long distance realationships its too complicated.....so wat should i do should i just block her from everything like yahoo im aim msn myspace and etc or should i just tell her stright out??? plz help me...
2006-08-19 09:28:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats the thing i tired tellin her that it will never work out but she still trying and another thing is y i don't believe in a long distance relationship is becuz i'm only 17 i still have alot ahead of me.....
2006-08-19 09:51:44 · update #1
dude i been thought that too well just disapper slowly or something then she'll get the msg
2006-08-19 16:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to tell her "the truth" you never said that you didn't like her, but just tell her "I think you're a nice girl, but I don't do long distant relationships; if I have to drive more than 15 minutes to see you it's not going to work sorry." Don't block her number b/c that's mean and women appreciate honesty always. It may hurt her, she will get over it eventually.
2006-08-19 09:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want her for a girl friend but you would love to have her for a buddy/ friend and still chat and IM. She will be hurt for a little while but she will get over it and move on. Yes I am talking from experience here I fell hard for some one in just the next town over and he didn't want me only for an f**** buddy and I wanted more then that. I have gotten over it and found love so much better than just good sex!!I am complete and happy now and he is on yahoo personals looking!!Good luck!!
2006-08-19 09:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, you don't believe in long distance relationships, that you fel they're too complicated, IF that's how you really feel, but if there's more to it then tell her. If you tell her it's because of the distance and she 's willing to move, then she will move for no reason.
Tell her you don't mind being online buddies and that doesn't change anything then you resort to the ignore.
2006-08-19 09:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her straight out that you don't want any relationship. The distance for you is too much and that she's nice, but not for you.
Sure she'll be sad, but whatever, it's better then stringing her along and hurting her feelings more in the long run.
2006-08-19 09:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her. since you live on opposite sides of the country, theres not much chance of you running into her...so just tell whats up, that it wouldnt work out, you dont want long distance, etc and then leave it up to her whether you 2 still talk or not.
2006-08-19 09:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that there is nothing in common with u 2 just be honest with her...Honestly is the best policy ...or maybe u may have said something that may have lead her to be live that u 2 might have chance ...once again not judge just trying to answer ur question.
2006-08-19 09:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just tell her straight on! tell her it will never work between us. i live in california and u live in NY and its just not going to work out. it will never work out. thats all and then hang up or something...that should work. lol
2006-08-19 09:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by greenelephants33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't thnk It's gonna if you still like her tell her so, but you just don't think it could work and that you are doing this for her sake......be gentlee-telling the truth is always better then blocking her out-she could come and get you.
2006-08-19 09:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a plane ticket, fly over to visit her, then punch her in the head.
If she still doesn't get it after that... I don't know what to tell you, dude.
2006-08-19 09:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋