We went out 3times & I slept w/him. THAT went terrible, (his performace was very lacking & i was talking about we werent a serious thing). After not getting a call from him for 4 days i sorta dumpted him. He really didn't seem to care cuz he was fine with friendship! He said he'd go out again & try IT again- but didn't seem sure. his parents are just divorcing & that may have to do with his wanting to take things slow.. Afterwards he saw my bf and was rude to him. I dont know if that means smthin. Now I have a class with him & am trying to ignore him without being to obvious, but its hard, especially cuz i still like him. I am a bit annoyed that he hasnt talked to me yet (he only said hi on the first day of school & that he liked what i had on-thats it)... but there are reasons that may point to this: I am currently dating my ex and he knows my ex from my university (whom he evades). But i really like him. what should i do?
2006-08-19 09:02:31 · 11 answers · asked by lara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are seeing someone else (aka, your boyfriend), why are you worried about this guy?
Since you have him in a class, there are two ways to handle this, keep on ignoring him and keep worrying about all the hidden meanings in things, or talk with him, and be friendly, without flirting. If you really care about your boyfriend, you should decide now that this guy can be nothing more than a friend.
If you want another chance with this guy, you need to end things with your boyfriend. It is so unfair to him to be pining over another guy while you're with him. You, yourself, said that he wasn't that great when you slept with him..... so why are you so hung up on him?
2006-08-19 09:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you won't like my answer and the reason is you blew it when you slept with him. So now you'll never really know if he liked you for you or for a piece of ***. I am not trying to be rude but it is the truth and sometimes the truth hurts. I say you need to move on and chalk it up as a mistake and learn by your mistakes and don't go to bed with someone until you know he loves you for you.You deserve that much. Good luck.
2006-08-19 09:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should think things out and find out who you really like and want to be with or else ur just lying to your self. it sounds like you want to work things out with that guy and u should you dont know what will come out of it. It can be good or bad.But most importantly listen to ur heart. Well hope i helped
~God Bless~
2006-08-19 09:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide who you want to be with. Once you've made your choice THEN you can actually take action. Obviously, he probably still has feelings for you but since you're taken maybe that's why he appears not interested.
2006-08-19 09:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by larceny'sghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let him know that you are looking for a relationship with good sex. if you really like him you will let him know that and try to do every thing that you can to spice things up between you guys.
2006-08-19 09:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by lightcoolkisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try getting them to except each other and how you feel about them
2006-08-19 09:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by kirk_leblanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bf and if you are dating him he isn't an ex. You are a screwed up person.
2006-08-19 09:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
k so u like him ....discuss ure issue with him...ask him does he like u in a manner tht u can continue a realtionship ..
2006-08-19 09:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by asslko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya listen 2 your hart
2006-08-19 09:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by popi 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
woah that's complicated
follow your gut and good luck
2006-08-19 09:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋