MEN ..............need your raw-true opinion...be honest?

Question

I cant ask a woman this question because they are usually in denial or unaware of it so that is why i am asking you men
GUYS BE HONEST Can you tell sexually if a woman has had a child? IF YES what are the differences you have noticed?

Answer 1

It's not so much that they have a child, it's that they are a mother. The way they think, act, talk, etc. is different, and a guy can just tell. You should consider asking indirect, but probing questions, such as how they feel about children, or would they ever consider having children. The obvious physiological inidicators are usually stretch marks (around the abdomin and breasts) and a shot out vagina. You're welcome.

Answer 2

Well, it depends on how the woman had a child. If she had it via natural birth, it can be a bit harder to tell. Some will probably tell you that they are a bit 'looser' in their nethern region, and when I dated a woman that had a child, I thought the same thing. However, that could have been because I knew she had one.

If she has had a child through surgical means (I won't even try the spelling of it!) there would most likely be visible scars. They are, I think, on the abdomen (stomach area).

Have you asked her yet if she has kids, and what was her response if you did ask? Is she giving you reasons to believe she has them? Have you visited her home? If you have did you see any signs of children? (toys, high chairs, other baby/kid items)

Answer 3

There is no particular thing that applies to all women but the most common indication of a previous child birth is a change in the breast nipples. A woman's nipples usually become enlarged and protrude more than a woman's who has never had a child. This is especially true if they breast fed their child. Stretch marks is not a reliable indicator, as they can also be an indicator of weight loss and in many cases they completely disappear after giving birth.

Answer 4

If you can slip a speculum into her vagina during sex and take a look at her cervix, you might be able to tell. Don't forget to check for tell tale signs of a cesarean section on the abdomen; sometimes cleverly hidden in the bikini area.. Now I have a question for you Einstein..can you tell sexually if a man has had a child?

Answer 5

The indication that a woman has had a child I think like this :
1)Her breast nipples are darker and larger
2)Her virginity has been lost or broken
3)Her stomach has some white little stretches
4)Her stomach has a sign of formerly surgery if her child birth by a caesarian
5)Her stomach is bigger and wider than a woman who has not had a child.
6)Her breasts are weaker or softer or indolent and bigger

Answer 6

You guys have got it so wrong & this is not a case of being in denial. There is no one physical, tell-tale way to know if a woman has had a child. The nipple thing untrue, because not all change, TRUST ME, when I say this. It's all in your heads.

Answer 7

Checked out your answers, and from a female, here is what I have read in medical books, the vaginal area for females no child will be pinker, and for females that have had children, vaginal area more red. Can't think of the book name, but I hold to there being facts of differences.

Answer 8

Unfortunately, you can't tell whether or not she's had a child BUT you can make a reasonable assessment of the mileage on it. Beware of those hanging plants!

Answer 9

The answer is NO. Just so you won't be surprised if she tells you that she has two kids at home. And, why the guessing game in the first place?

Answer 10

no that is such a funny fu cking question!! LOL hello men are stupid when it comes to **** like this no they cant ******* tell ok for one anyone can have stretchmarks men are women!! i have four kids i went to the doctor for a pap and the doctor asked me if i ever plan on having kids (she had never seen me before) she was shocked when i told her i already had four so if a doctor cant tell do you really think a guy can!!!