We arent actually dating just seein eachother
2006-08-19 08:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I was in the same situation, but you need to be brave and tell him exactly what you want to tell him. You both need to talk about what you both expect of eachother so there is no misunderstanding later in the pregnancy. And remember you can do it on your own if he really does not want to help. You need to realize that he may not want to help and it really is not worth putting the baby through the stress that you will be going through trying to get him to help. I do it on my own and my daughter has everything she needs. She is happy and when she wants to know why "dad" was not around then that is the time I will tell her. But BE STRONG!! AND YOU CAN DO IT NO MATTER WHAT!!
2006-08-19 12:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by mjp4_28_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should schedule a time to meet in person. You need to just be straight forward with him. There are alot of things to discuse and this is not a time for beating around the bush. Just tell him "Listen, I need to tell you something. I just found out I am pregnant with your child." Dont offer up the information like "Yes it is your baby." before he even asks you, cause some guys take this as a woman trying to explain themselves or cover up the fact that they don't really know who the dad is and are just trying to pin it on the best choice. You need to at least give him time to absorb this information before you start telling him that you expect him to support you during the pregnany and the baby afterwards. If you start talking about money on this first conversation, it is going to make you seem cold hearted and that you are more concerned with how much financial support you are going to get out of him, and not how much "daddy involvement" he is going to have with the baby.
Good luck, but don't expect a great response from the get go.
2006-08-19 17:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sure he's the father you should be straight up with him. I was seeing a young lady about 18 years ago who told me I was the father of her 3 year old daughter 15 years ago. I being brought up to take responsibility for my actions agreed to do what was right and support the child but we needed to have a paternity test done because she was dating someone else at the time. To make a long story short she did not agree to the test and today I am still wondering how the child's and my life would have turned out if we had each other. I really regret not pressing the issue, so be discrete about it and tell him.
2006-08-19 08:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by ocm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not dating, just seeing each other under the blanket??? You must talk to him seriously and tell him that he is about to be a father as you are pregnant. If he replies "how does that happens?" Then you are in trouble!!
Also, let your parents know too if you are still living at home. But make sure you are pregnant as if not, your world will be upside down!!
2006-08-19 10:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 100% positive he is the father?
If he is, then you must tell him. This is not a responsibility that should solely be on your shoulders.
If you are not 100% sure, you really should have a paternity test done. It isn't fair to the guy if he starts supporting a child that isn't his.
Just call him, tell him you need to see him, and tell him face to face.
It's a crummy situation, but it was preventable. Time to step up and do what needs to be done.
2006-08-19 08:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him like this-It takes two to tangle and you know sex dose come with consuquences right?Well i am pregnant and you are just as much to blame as me.And im keeping the baby.
2006-08-19 08:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How a bout sending an email....
guess what, im prego.your the dad.
call me if youd like to talk
2006-08-19 09:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him line up with a bunch of his friends. Then you say loudly, "All right all you guys who got me pregnant take one step back... NOT SO FAST (insert daddy's name here).
2006-08-19 08:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you have the baby then have a blood test done to see who the father is. i hope that he will help you with the baby.
2006-08-19 09:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by tennis star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for you. maybe you should of thought about protection, so you wouldn't be in this situation. just let him know whats going on but sounds like you will be raising this kid by yourself
2006-08-19 08:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋