there is this person i live with and when i frist started my job she gave me all her work clothes because she was not working any more and did not need them. When i started to bie all my work clothes she keeps stealing my clothes with out even asking she will walk up to me and say hey like my clothes now she has children and some of my clothes get ruined and it really makes me mad i dont go and steal her clothes i will always ask am i being rude or what should i say to her because i do not want her wearing my clothes anymore help!!
2006-08-19 07:35:17 · 12 answers · asked by typhaniee0027 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this person you live with really did help you out by giving her work clothes to you and stuff... but now that you are buying your own and believe me i kno that buying nice work clothes can get expensive.... you just have to tell her that you appreciate what she has done for you in the past, but that your clothes are costly and she is kinda ruining them, and the fact is that she should ask before taking, the word "stealing" is a strong word, so do not throw that word around...
but just explain to her, do not worry about hurt feelings all that can be mended
2006-08-19 08:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by cutemonkey_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either just tell her how you feel or start hiding them and then when she finds your cloths hidden under the bed or where ever then maybe she will get the hint. Or give her all her cloths back and tell her that you have enough of your own now that you don't need to share any longer.
2006-08-19 14:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u still living with this person? i dont mean to sound rude but it seems that she isnt very nice. i think that u should tell her to either stop stealing your clothes or u will move out or u should put your clothes in a place with a lock and ask her to stop stealing your clothes.
2006-08-19 14:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. dont be rude. thank her for her kindness before. the difference in your situations is that she gave you things she didnt use, but now she is taking clothes you still wear. tell her it bothers you she takes it without asking, and that you still need them in good shape. i think you'll have to share at least some of your things. maybe you can keep what you love most a bit hidden, and 'not have it available' if she asks you for it.
2006-08-19 14:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this person how you feel, go up to her in a calm way take things slow and explain how you feel. If I was you I would just confront them and let them know.
2006-08-19 14:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rocstarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her to leave my clothes alone and if she did not i would tell u her to find another place to live cause i dont want a thief in my house.
2006-08-19 14:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by angelbabe18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward with her and tell her how you feel if she's as good of a friend as you think she is she'll understand
2006-08-19 14:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new roommate, I wouldn't want to live with a thief.
2006-08-19 14:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by aaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time use commas and periods to explain yourself.... ;) And put a lock on your closet.
2006-08-19 14:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Просто Я 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight out its giong to be hard but you know life moves on and you have to tell her .
2006-08-19 14:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋