i am a bit overweight.Do you think guys dont like me because of this or is it because I have a problem with this?help......
2006-08-19 07:08:46 · 17 answers · asked by kilneagh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People see you for the way you see yourself. If you are happy with yourself then it shows. You have to be confident in yourself hun and it will show to everyone around you. If you have a positive attiude and love yourself and are happy and carefree people will notice you. If you choose to be unhappy about yourself and tend to shy away from people then people will take it as a sign of being unavailable.
2006-08-19 07:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by smart_2b_blonde 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys will like you but more for your personality rather then how you look unless your not sloppy. If you look like the girl from TOP MODEL and CElebrity fit club then you have no problem. If your sloppy then you have a problem. Dont go likeing hot guys because they might not want you back. Dont dis alright guys because thats probly all you may attract. If you look like MONIQUE then you are in good look. Get fit if its such a big deal to you and you wont have a problem gain confidence and you will feel better about you
2006-08-19 14:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is That what you think of your self ....
Why cant you believe in your self and reject the spirit of failure,Remember that you are as unique as any other person out there believe me there are guys that like girls who are fat or big so i advice you to hold on you have got to be strong because what you are looking for will mature with time and confidence in your self and capabilities cuz sometimes your circumstances might be an hindrance in seeing your abilities , you never can tell someone outethere might have or has for a long time had a crush on you ,Be patient.
2006-08-19 14:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much overweight? how tall are u ? Are u overweight because ur Dr says so or just because u r not as thin as other girls. it's a matter of opinion unless ur Dr says so right? Looks r the first things guys notice so yeah i would say maybe guys are overlooking u. But as soon as they get to know u better looks are secondary
2006-08-19 14:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of ladies overweight. You have to project yourself the way you feel inside, in your actions. If you feel sexy, then you will be percieved as sexy. You shouldn't let your weight play a factor in your relationship, unless, he has a problem with it. And if he can't except you for all that you are then maybe you don't need him after all.
2006-08-19 14:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's your self esteem and how you carry yourself. Try to think of yourself as a great person, that anyone would love to have. Hold your head high. It's what is inside and not on the outside. This generation has changed about weight.
2006-08-19 14:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by chris a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention how much you weigh. but guys have this hang up about girls being overweight. anything past 180 is a no no in their book. but if he met you heavy what is his problem.. just talk to him and see where he's coming from.
2006-08-19 14:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Trini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys do not judge girls by their size. i have friends who are overweight yet there are lots of suitors. if your weight makes you so uncomfortable, you should go for a diet. Have some self esteem :)
2006-08-19 14:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by yanshan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry what all guys think. wait for the guy who really really cares for you. he wont care about your weight, but like you for your attitude. good luck and hope for the best. =]
2006-08-19 14:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Shelby♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... i am slightly overweight and i still have a loving caring boyfriend if a guy doesnt like you because of your weight he isnt worth your time
2006-08-19 14:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋