My girlfriend with whom i'm talking since 6 months is very honest,blunt,moody,aggresive and stubborn like wall.I started loving her.she doesnt express any emotions .How can i tackle with this gal if i mary her?
2006-08-19 06:56:31 · 13 answers · asked by komal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA almost sounds like me. Accept that you will not change her, and decide if you will be able to deal with it. You have for 6 months. Look at the flip side, would you rather have someone that is constantly hanging on you, calling you 100 times a day, lies? I didn't grow up in a touchy feely home, so I'm not a huggy type of person, maybe she's the same, hence the lack of emotions. Your decision.
2006-08-19 07:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by tikitiki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really already thinking of getting married? If she is always moody then it probably has nothing to do with you she probably isn't happy with herself. Write a list of all the little and major things you like about her and dislike about her. Score the major things 10pts and the little things 5pts. If the dislikes are more then let her know your concerns or if she's too stubborn then leave her. But maybe you'll find that all the good little things add up to more than the bad. Anyone you decide to spend the rest of your life with is someone who makes you happy. Does she make you laugh?
2006-08-19 14:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question.. and as a woman I give you props for coming on and asking instead of just throwing her away.
First of all,, compliment her. Women love to be complimented. Tell her how beautiful she looks, tell her that you love her. They absolutely love the L word. Take her to nice places, reach over the dinner table and whisper something sweet in her ear. You do the dishes for once.. Kiss her on the lips and hug her tightly.. That is a sheer sign that love is in the air.. Flowers are a plus..
Its always nice to have sweet moments..
try it out.. don't just dump her at the drop of a dime. If you love this woman, then try to make it work with her...
2006-08-19 14:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are out of your damn mind. Why in hell (which is just what your marriage would be in six weeks) would you bother with anyone that acts like that? Tell Miss bit*h to take a hike and find someone you don't have to work so hard to impress. (or has she already snipped off your balls?)
Weakling.
2006-08-19 14:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you really still want this girl. yr crazy. but if you do put yr foot down. no harm in letting her know that she goes to far. if she loves you she will stay and listen. if she doesnt love you she will go. this would be a good test of faith wont it. more tips on dating and love on this site
2006-08-19 14:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's stupid to think you can change someone, especially something as major as a personality. If your personalities are not compatible now, they wont be later.
2006-08-19 14:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Josh P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do love her that much you will work it out ,i have the same problem,here with my friend, i am still trying to work it out after 19 month,i have asked her to leave and we do fight alot but yet we are still looking to be with each other
2006-08-19 14:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really want 2 be with her then if she doesnt show any emotions? what feelings does she have for u? may b shes bi polor
2006-08-19 14:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by jennifertrinitysky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry her your stupid.Your in it for a piece huh?
2006-08-19 14:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to someone else. She will not change.
2006-08-19 14:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋