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mainly in india sum rents get mad wenever they have a baby girl---i think dats the stupid est thing ever.....

2006-08-19 06:25:58 · 22 answers · asked by pinkpixie 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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YES totally.. ure right.. i wanna share what i have seen with my own eyes..

just recently around 6 months back my sisters nanad (husbands sister) got married to a boy who her parents selected, the boy was supposedly good. but just before the wedding the the boys side started putting fwd demands.. since it is considered a shame for a wedding to break, the continued & fulfilled their demands 4 furniture, gold etc etc... but that was not the end... when she entered her new house it was hell for her.. she was bullied by her nanads & inlaws.. made to do all the work of the joint family consisting of many members.. taunted by them & made to fun of.. she is now 2 mths preg & still bullied by them.. she is not allowed to have a mobile or talk to anyone unless there is someone there to hear what she is talking.. needless to say she is unhappy...

for those who said it happens only in rural india.. u r mistaken.. this girl is an educated & from a wealthy of family.. she was working as a teacher before her wedding was fixed..

and yes now her husband & her inlaws expect her to have a beta (son)..

so this is the way it is even today in big cities.

2006-08-19 08:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Lack of common sense and logic.
All mis-conception.
It is the balance of nature.
Both boys and girls are required for sex and reproduction.
It is the nature's gift.
You are not to be blamed.
We have to blame such insensible people.
I have seen such Educated brutes and illiterate fools.
No man can survive without woman and viceversa.
Don't feel bad my dear lady.
You are right because they do not know the reality of life.
I am with you my dear.
I am 58 years old, a widower, having a son. But I never felt the difference. I liked both of them as the gift of nature. Without my wife how I could have produced a son. Woman is very essential.
I had a best woman as my wife.

2006-08-20 06:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Although it is illegal, so many girls are killed before they're even born, just because they're girls. This is causing all sorts of trouble for both young men and women of marriage age now, and it will only get worse. India, wake up! Get rid of dowry and learn to respect your women!

2006-08-19 08:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0 0

You are right. A lot of so called educated people treat girls unfairly. So leave alone the rest.

2006-08-19 08:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0 0

This is gender biased question. Not only girls but even boys and men are treated badly. It all depends on the situation, the perpetrators and the social structure.

2006-08-19 06:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 0 0

I agree with u but things r changing for good and it may take quite some time to get this situation completely.This is true mostly in villages and the situation in cities is different and is far far better.Lets pray that things get better and better

2006-08-19 06:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by SR BODA 3 · 0 0

yes ,this is partially true for the people who are under priviledged or uneducated.But a large number of high class and middle class society in India has changed now and the girls themselves are changing this old rotten tradition.

2006-08-19 08:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

this is wrong to go mad having a baby gal but its very true that gals r treated unfairly in India.

2006-08-19 06:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by silentlove 3 · 0 0

those days are gone now girls are treated equally
and participating in all matters like boy and other male member.

2006-08-19 06:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by ravikumarrathi 1 · 0 0

We will see the things as we are not as it is. first women's attitude towards themselves should change. let it start from you. why you expect some one to fight for you . fix your eyes on god move forward then people will follow you.

2006-08-21 00:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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