My ex bf is a like a perfect guy, he is sweet, a gentleman, the hottest guy iv ever seen,(heres a pic of him http://s81.photobucket.com/albums/j238/mellymel31689/Alex/?action=view¤t=Alex-1.jpg&refPage=&imgAnch=imgAnch4) and we broke up over something stupid and he got married cuz its an arranged marriage, but he just divorced her cuz she kept cheating on him, and we recently talked on AIM and he was asking if i had a bf and when he said bye he said he loves me, i dont know if i even love him or just like/crushing on him or what, we've been threw alot and i care about him alot i just dont know if i could ever date him again, and im not entirely sure if he wants to date me or if i want to and i dont know what love is anymore, im just so confused and dont know if i should get my hopes up again
2006-08-19 06:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by Super_Midget 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he didnt find out about the arrange married until while we were dateing, that had ntohignt o do with us, it was his family who made him
2006-08-19 06:32:44 · update #1
oops typo nothing
2006-08-19 06:33:47 · update #2
Well, first decide whether it is love or lust you have for him. Then act upon your decision and tell him how you feel. If you dont think it can be anything more than friendship, leave it at that. Just do what feels right to you and enjoy yourself!
2006-08-19 06:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First. . pull your head out of your butt and wake up! You DON'T KNOW if you love him or not? You need to get a grip of yourself . . if you don't know. . .then you don't . Also. . what kind of moron gets into an arranged marriage? Sounds like you are both immature and have no idea what the hell you want in life. . . in other words. . .you're perfect for each other. Go ahead. . . go after him. . . . marry him. . . have three kids with him. . . get divorced . . .and live the rest of you life miserable!
2006-08-19 06:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive Ethan lover, From a men skill it form of appears like your "Ethan" might want to no longer of been that in to you first of all. i recognize that sounds a touch harsh yet when it in uncomplicated words took one weekend with none contact for him to lose interest in you, you opt to ask your self no matter if he's truly properly worth some time besides. Secondly, the rationalization why you felt like you probably did no longer have a boyfriend is more effective than in all probability the end results of your little "Ethan" no longer desirous to be your boyfriend, and lacking the balls to start up the breakup. the advice i provide to you in case you verify you nevertheless opt to pursue an immature and ball-a lot less human being like "ethan", is this. Its no secret that for some reason even as a guy acts disinterested in a lady, deep down the lady needs to pursue the guy even more effective. men artwork the same way. do not enable him imagine your at abode irritating about you and him and what he's doing. instead bypass out.... bypass out plenty. enable him see you out, and enable him see you out with yet another guy. If there is one ingredient men hate, its understanding they screwed up and some different person has who they might want to be with. i'm hoping this helps you artwork stuff out, good luck.
2016-11-26 01:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knew he was going to be married in an arranged marriage, why was he involved with you in the first place??? You have to ask yourself that. Will he do that to you again???
2006-08-19 06:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight out ask him what his intentions are as you are not going to play mind games and second guess about anything. Then sit back and see if he is for real or if he is playing games. Don't be shy, speak your mind. How else you gonna find out?
2006-08-19 06:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u got to do is have sex if yall make love then its right if yall have sex then its wrong or do it the girl girl way and look into his eyes and say i love u if he laugh leae his *** along if he say i love u too then kiss u go for it
2006-08-19 06:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋