first kiss soon with my bf so please some tips and advice to make me not so nervous I am 15
2006-08-19 04:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one
2006-08-19 05:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my first kiss was in 4 th grade and I was not expecting it. It was a little strange. How do you know you are going to be kissed? Did he tell you? I think the first kiss is usually a surprise. Just touch him lips gently, no tongue, that leads to petting, separate your lips as you kiss him and hold for about a minute, that should do it. Good luck on your first kiss but don't let it get carried away because you are so young.. Good luck Zella
2006-08-19 12:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the same girl again?
okay, have some music that you both dig on and take it slow, it's not a pie eating contest, you can close eyes, start by locking lips, and kiss, but coordinate what you do with him, don't be afraid to nibble on his lip and slide tongues together. don't forget to come up for air, and try lightly exhaling/blowing on the lips, and work to the ears and neck...that's hot!
2006-08-19 12:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put all your love for him in the kiss, and everyone is always nervous for thier first kiss.
2006-08-19 12:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brush ur teeth and rinse ur mouth and floss.u don't wnt to turn him off right away,even if ur an expert and blah-blah the no.1 thing is hygiene.peace out!
2006-08-19 12:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15?!?! You should not be thinking about kissing, you should be focusing on your schoolwork.
2006-08-19 12:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it, it will or can lead to other things that you are not ready for. Save yourself for the right one when you get married.
2006-08-19 12:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Ladeshug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont rush it, and make sure its the right time, thats what my sis told me but i am only13
2006-08-19 11:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go smooth then fast again Smooth! enjoy it
2006-08-19 12:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KISS - Keep it simple and sweet.. :D
2006-08-19 12:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋