weve spoke on the phone a couple of times since then, and hes asked me a couple of times to go over to his house and we can "cuddle" i like him but, i dont want him to get the wrond impression. i dont want him to think of me as a f**k buddy. so what do you think, shoul di go over to his house or does it sound like a booty call??
2006-08-19 04:48:36 · 10 answers · asked by oocheerxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Booty call
2006-08-19 04:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better not to go over a guy's place esp if you are not bf&gfs. it might be that he's just using you or that he really likes you. but what ever reasons, it is still better to get to know him better first by meeting outside (anywhere) besides his house or somewhere really deserted is no good.
imagine if he ask you to go to his house (esp if there's no one in the house), then invite you into his bedroom to eg. look at his photo album. then he starts kissing you and ripping your clothes off and you are turned on (even though you are not ready) you might put yourself in a position that is unfair to yourself as you didn't give yourself time to assess whether this guy is right for you.
well.. this is what i think.. but everyone is different and they have their own okays and not okays.. so at the end it is up to you to decide.
just let him know how you feel and if he's a good guy whos worth keeping, he'd understand and respect your wishes. listen to your gut feelings.. if he's just in for the sex and you are not up for it.. just say no.
2006-08-19 11:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No f**k buddies aren't fun! someone always fall!!!!!!! so tell him that u are not his booty call, because that is what he is trying to make u and if he doesn't speak to u again then u know what his intentions were
2006-08-19 11:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daytime is for friends, nighttime is for lovers.
If you're uncomfortable going over or don't want the incounter to lead to sex, tell him you have to wake up early the next day.
Invite him to lunch instead.
2006-08-22 00:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hey You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him before going over to clear the air,I'm sure he'll understand.
2006-08-19 11:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** buddys are always fun. IF you do. just make sure you understand that is all it is (just sex) dont get your heart invalved... its not pretty in the end if you do.
2006-08-19 11:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a booty call
2006-08-19 11:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by jeremiah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and see how he feels too, then go on a few dates and not have sex until you are ready.
2006-08-19 11:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to take you out on a few nice dates..
2006-08-19 11:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can go to his house but dun do ''tat'' with him wil do
2006-08-19 12:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by koichi_shun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋