Why are Men so insenstive?

Question

My friend and I are experiencing some men problem. Both of our BFs are super insenstive. I wonder why they have to be so. Can't they tell that we are angry with their way they act sometimes?

Answer 1

Please don't be so generalistic about guys. You and your friend seem to have stumbled across 2 men who are not what you want out of a partner. Move on and seek elswhere.

I am sensative when it is needed, and firm when the ocassion demands such. We all must have an equalibrium on emotions. I'm sure you don't want a guy crying to you like you are his mommy. But you most likely would like a man to listen to you and at least try to understand what you are feeling at times.

Do you ever not realize when your man may be upset or angry?? Sometimes both men and women don't express their feelings and just expect the other to know automatically. Don't make your partner guess what is wrong. Don't assume they know. Communicate at all times to be 100% sure.

Answer 2

Just a pity that you and your friends are experiencing this situation simultaneously. But that doesn't give room for generalization. I want to tell you that several men both on this site and elsewhere are very sensitive, caring and loving. Of course, I'm happy to inform you, with all humility, that I'm a guy and I'm very sensitive, loving and caring. I hope one day you will find someone like me, and the above story will change for the better. I'm just very optimistic. Have a nice day and best of luck.

Answer 3

Not all men are insensitive. You just ended up with that type. A few guys can't account for them all, and a lot of times when women say they want a sensitive guy, they turn down the opportunity when they're faced with it.

Answer 4

Hmmmm. you really have no clue?

OK, I will help you gals to understand. Ever had a dog?

Runs to the door when you arrive, barks at strangers, fights over food, is territorial, defends property, slobbers on the food, and when sleeping, doesn't notice how he looks, loves to sleep on the furniture, never cleans up the mess...

getting the idea?

Loyal to a fault, chases cars, is totally forgiving, doesn't notice flaws and features, goes for the freshest meat, wants the biggest piece, will listen at 3AM...

Answer 5

Men are wired to be goal oriented. Women are wired to be relationship oriented. Men get turned off when women complain about them and try to change them. Women need to accept their men the way they are or move on to another. That's just the way it is.

Answer 6

It is so hard to accept or understand the other sex's way of thinking. I think that is why it is good men and women are different....it balances it out. I believe men are more logical and women emotional........and it is not that either is good or bad. I think the anger fades if we feel the other is at least hearing us and trying to understand our point of view. Doesn't mean either one of you are going to totally agree....it is called compromise.

Answer 7

uh hello maybe u should meet some more ppl not all guys are insenstive. Meet some other ppl!!

Answer 8

your question hurt my feelings

no seriously, another female asking a question that generalizes all men because she has not found the right guy....key or you, PATIENCE, ditch the losers when you spot them

the funny thing, I am a nice guy and all the ladies I meet that ask for that nice guy usually end up flaking out and leaving and dating some real prick.

so tell me why that is?

Answer 9

no, they can't. Men are simple creatures. Don't expect them to know what you're thinking. If something is on your mind, then tell him instead of playing the game waiting for him to ask you 'what's wrong'.

Answer 10

Guess that's why we belong together...we wonder why y'all are so sensitive? We just don't talk about it with our friends because we understand that that's just the way women are...