I have a girlfriend yet I love somebody else. The other girl likes me too. But we are just friends. We want to be together but it would be a long distance relationship. I don't want to hurt my girlfriend yet I don't want to lose the other girl. It is kind of complicated.
2006-08-19 04:42:38 · 11 answers · asked by LyL Ma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is called you are hanging on to someone for a sense of security....and is that really fair to the person you are doing that to? Just try to imagine how you would feel if it were turned around......be brave and go it alone. Obviously, the one you are with isn't the one and you should cut her free to find someone who is in love with her.
2006-08-19 04:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, he was studying with her for 1 year and he doesn't know that she has a boyfriend? Well, that's only because she didn't tell him that she has a boyfriend. (that is if they are friends, and they talk to each other. If not, disregard this sentence.) She told you that he sent an sms for two reasons: 1. Either she wants to make you jealous, for whichever reason, maybe she thinks you took her for granted and just to show you that others are also interested in her. Or... 2. Because she doesn't want any secrets between the two of you. Well, she really has to tell him if she's not interested. The fact that she's waiting for him might mean that she's thinking about that as possibility, and the longer she waits, the worse it will be for him. You should ask her what is really going on, and be direct. Tell her you trust her and you just want to know what exactly is going on. Don't talk to that guy because it's her job to do so. Chin up and good luck! But like in every relationship, communication is the key. Don't guess anything, ask! :)
2016-03-26 21:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say that you want to have your cake and eat it too. I say tell your girlfriend that you want to date other people and you do not want to hold her back from dating herself. You have to go to the person you love even if she lives in another state. Your girlfriend has a right to happiness too and you need not hold her back that is being selfish.. If you love someone else than let your girlfriend go so you can carry on with both your lives. It is your life live it the way you want. Your girlfriend will be hurt but in the long run she is respect you for your honesty. Honesty is the number one thing in a relationship.. Good luck, Zella
2006-08-19 04:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would your girlfriend even find out? since this other girl lives long distance, what would the problem? there is no problem you just tell a lie and make sure you stick to it and you confuse yourself this lie is the truth, this lie is the truth. this way when you say gotta go out of town for work or a new program start and i gotta go where? lie about anything to get with the other. just don't let find out. the other girl got no problem with you being with your girlfriend so that's easy just worry about the gf but enjoy the other when your together. luck chica!
2006-08-19 04:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to eat the cake too, better be careful because it would hurt them both and in the end, you'll end up alone. Think about it and put yourself in their shoe. Lust is different from love, you dont want to hurt your gf because you do love her...and you will only realize how much love you have for someone when you lost that person...
2006-08-19 04:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem complicated to me. You need to be an adult and tell your gf because she is obviously wasting her time with you. That is not fair to her at all. Yes she will be hurt but people get hurt in relationships everyday. She will be able to move on trust me. If you do not tell her, the longer you wait the worse it will hurt her.
2006-08-19 04:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your cake and eat it too. Do you think you are being fair to any of you? If it were me, I would be honest to your first girlfriend which you are actually using until the other one becomes available. That's not right. Remember, what comes around goes around...
2006-08-19 04:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going out with a girl and you dont like her then thats wrong. Just tell her the truth it may be hard but u will be happy =)
2006-08-19 04:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by giovanni1928 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go for whats in ur heart
2006-08-19 05:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHOOSE RIGHT
2006-08-19 04:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by sex-c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋