I love my sister in law to death,she is like a sister to me but she stays in me and my husbands bussiness.Sometimes he tells her things to get advice then she go tells the whole family about us.Should i just stay away from her.People also says she talks behind my back also she acts like she wants him all to her self. It sounds like she wamts to break us up. Am i right
2006-08-19 04:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whoa yeah that has got to suck. I'm really close to my boyfriend's sisters, but the one thing that I try my hardest not to do is talk about my relationship with their brother in front of them. Talk to your husband about it, he needs to know how you feel about him getting advice from her, especially since it sounds like she's turning it against the two of you. Then the two of you need to talk to her about this, make sure you are united on this!!!
I have an aunt who thinks that no one is good enough for her "baby brother" (gag me) and it really has gotten to the point of annoyance for our family. So maybe that's what's happening to your sister-in-law.
Good luck.
2006-08-19 05:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by coconutsmh86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hun.. she cant tell the family ur business if u stop telling her personal things u dont want people to know.. and if it bugs u that badly and u think she is having a negative impact on ur marriage the best thing to do with a gossipy person is to feed them misinformation, that way when they go around telling the family and u tell them the truth she ends up looking like a huge fool in the process.. and may learn to stop spreading rumors or gossip.. but that could be a bad situation in itself since its a family member so i say stop telling her things u dont want the family to know.. only way its going to stop..
2006-08-19 05:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to YOUR husband and tell him not to be telling the sister-in-law anything private. Keep the relationship with her more like you would with a next door neighbor.
2006-08-19 04:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is HIS SISTER. Take care. The best thing you can do is to do ... nothing. No matter what your syster in law will remain his sister. But your relation to your husband can change. Remember whit who was you married, and stick to this person.
2006-08-19 04:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by csurulyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell her yr secrets,best to draw a line in between.She could do some nasty things U never would imagine.Been there once,it was nasty.
2006-08-19 05:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every experience i have had with my man's sister has been terrible like they wanted their brother in a sick perverted way.Now i am married to someone who has no sisters thank god.I would not have anything else to do with her if i were you but its easy for me to cut people off and never speak again.
2006-08-19 04:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ignore her.
2006-08-19 05:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by raju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell her your business!!!
2006-08-19 04:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are like that....
don't be too close, she can use it against you...
2006-08-19 04:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by rassia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋