Any advice for a new dad?

Question

My son was due on Thursday and the Stork hasn't brought him yet, maybe today?

This is my first kid, and I haven't changed a diaper before! Help Me! Do you have any advice for a new dad?

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Answer 1

The fact that you care enough to ask the question, gives evidence enough that you will be a great father. G'luck and congrats on the baby boy!

Answer 2

Jack Henry is going to be a very lucky boy. He has a father who loves him. His Daddy is worried that he's going to do something wrong. Daddy, I don't care what everyone else tells you about you are going to fine. Yes, you are going to do fine, because you all ready love him more than some Dad's love their children.
You are going to make mistakes. Every parent does. But do it out of love, not neglect. Love is the most important thing when raising a child. Being there for his first day of school is more important for him, then that promotion at work.
Be there through the runny noses, and fevers late at night. Show that precious gift from God, that he can count on you. If you promise to play ball with him, then play ball. The grass needs cutting, so what, the grass can be cut later. Take him to the movies, walk to the park, don't put him on the back burner. Make time for him-with him-and as a family.
Show him how to be a good man, a good husband. Treat him with respect, consider his feelings. Ask him questions and talk to him. No yelling! I have 2 kids. My son is 16, the baby, and he's a little weird, he's a book worm, plays in the band, he's a computer nerd, loves old rock music, wants to be a science teacher one day(like Doc in Back to the Future) he won't wear any shirts without a collar, can't tie his shoes, put can handle a motorcycle like a professional, he has long hair. He is my son. He doesn't fit into any group. He is my son. Of course, I wished he would socialize more, but he's happy, and I wish he would wear some different cloths, but I am letting him be hisself. He is my son, and he's a very level headed young man, and he knows that he is loved for himself, not what he does or looks like. He is comfortable with his look. So, don't put pressure on your son, by handing him a football or pushing him into doing something he doesn't like. He would be doing it to please you, and I find my happiness by seeing my kids doing what they like...whatever it is.
So, Daddy within all my ramblings, did you get anything out of it.
LOVE him....that's it....mistakes will be made, learn from them, so you won't repeat them, accept him for who he is not who you want him to be.....LOVE HIM!
God bless us all..........

ps.....don't forget to love on Momma some too!

Answer 3

1) Trust your instincts. You'll get better and better at changing a diaper.

2) You're going to be told a lot of advice, most of which contradicts each other. You're going to know your child better than anyone--trust yourself as well.

3) Be there for your wife and your new son.

4) Don't give up! The first few months are going to be very frustrating, but you ALL will make it.

Answer 4

You shouldn't be so nervous, you'll do fine.
Just watch you wife/girlfriend whenever she does anything with the baby, ask alot of questions. She would be more than happy to help you learn how to look after the little one.
Another invaluable resource is your parents and her parents, don't be afraid to ask either of them for help or just ask general child care questions. Some advice you will take, some you won't.
You and the mother of your child will find your own way and what your comfortable with when raising your child.
Good luck and congrats.

Answer 5

Congrats in advance! You'll be just fine. The fact that you care is apparent & that's most of the battle. You'll get used to the daily chores & such in no time. That'll just happen as you go. My best advice would be to cat nap when you get the chance, keep your sense of humor up, and expect to gain many gray hairs....wear them like badges of honor, & keep written records, pictures, and momento books. That way you can always look back clearly when he's grown. It's also a valuable extortion tool when your child reaches adolescence. lol

Answer 6

Advice? Just be a dad. Once the child is born, nature will takes its course. Common sense and love will get you through and to anything for your wife/girl and child. The baby wil be the easy part, its comforting and helping out your spouse thats the issue. You learn to be her rock and she will take care of you and baby. Congratulations Dad!!!!

Answer 7

congrats man ima dad to i had no idea how to do anything so i watched my girl and boom there you have it how to change a diaper first u take the baby and lay on the back with its butt up ( u holding the legs) dont put it on its somache wipe the little a_ss with a baby wipe ( u might get dirty) and place a new diaper on and strap it on put the wipe in the diaper and strap it and trow it away then u might want to wash ur hands

Answer 8

diapers are stinky and most men have a hard time at first. you'll do o.k. after doing it a couple of times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you will learn as you go with everything on a daily bases. don't expect to know everything before the child comes!!! you can take a parenting class,that would help you and the mom a great amount. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Trust your own instincts and maybe get a copy of the "What To Expect The First Year". My hubby read parts of that book his first time around. It is a good book.
Congratulations and good luck, they grow up so faast!

Answer 10

Relax. And congratulations. You will be fine. If you have any questions ask the nurse when you are in the hospital.
I am a father of four and would not turn back the hands of time for anything. God bless.