Well, My boyfriend is 23 and am 16 we've been together for 1 year & 7 months but he has demonstrate that he loves me, but sometimes I don't believe him??
2006-08-19 04:07:09 · 25 answers · asked by solymar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's illegal for your boyfriend to be dating minors. He could go to jail for it. Dump him and date someone your age. Most men who date girls who are minors are just looking for sex, not a relationship.
2006-08-19 04:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My wife and I met when she was 15 and I was 22, age shouldn't really matter unless the guy has a rep. for sleeping around. My wife and I have been married for 6 yrs. now, but we have known each other for 11 yrs. I'm now 34 and she is 26. As corny as it sounds it was "love at first sight". Most people don't believe in it, but we are a perfect example of it, don't get me wrong we argue some times. We were together for 4 years before I popped the question and to answer your question. It is possible to fall in love.
2006-08-19 04:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it come to love age doesnt even matter! When it come to love all things are possible so to answer ur question yes i do thik he could really fall for you, besides think of it this way he's been by you 1 year and 7 months! if he has been around that long, he has to feel SOMETHING and i could easily be love. keep ur head up, and dont make urself sad ova nothin u dont kno to be true he says he loves u, he shows it, believe, embrace it, and be happy in that. Hope i helped.
2006-08-19 04:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strange emotion, it isn't usually restrictive of age or other boundaries. However, you must realize that the young man is in a very awkward position. He has fallen in love with a girl with whom society as deemed too young for him. And as such could get himself in a great deal of trouble. Especially if there is no parental consent for the relationship to continue. As such he is trapped between his love for you, and the guilt he may be feeling for loving someone so young because society says he shouldn't. The only way he's going to be able to feel secure in the relationship is for him to speak with your parents. You cannot do it for him, as that would quite probably get him in a lot of trouble with not only your parents, but with local law enforcement. I will not tell you that the situation will be resolved in the way you want it to be. However, you must always be honest, not only with your parents, but with him and yourself as well.
2006-08-19 04:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. I am a 28 yr old. When I was 22, I dated a 17 yr old. Remember, Guys our age are legally able to drink and get into places you are not. We tend to get drunk and see other girls that do the same.......do not rush into a relationship...You will meet plenty of guys as time goes on...trust me I have been there.
2006-08-19 04:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by jmillhimes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me im going through that phase and i also do think its down to not having a dad around. Im 16 and the thought of going out with a boy my age repulses me they're just immature, i love mature men in their 20's i know it sounds bad but thats just the way i feel. Hopefully we will gro out of it, just make sure none take advantage of you, because that hurts real bad!!!
2016-03-26 21:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh try fall in lust. What he is doing if you are having sex is called statutory rape(Having sex with a minor). And even if your not yet he is still a pedophile(Has a liking for children). Come on he's taking advantage of your innocence and if u have weird feelings too then that would be your intuition telling that its wrong. DUMP HIM NOW.
2006-08-19 04:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by sex-c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always possible, however I would more than likely believe it to be lust. Big difference dear, yet guys will use the love thing to get in your panties, so be careful and make sure it is the real thing
2006-08-19 04:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by lightning14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating him that long, it is safe to assume that you have had sex and he is ready to move on.
If you have doubts about his love for you, then your instincts are probably correct. Anyway you are to young to be dealing with a guy in his 20's. He can go places you can't and do things you can't. For example, bars.
You need to move on and date someone your own age.
2006-08-19 04:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by hotsista0201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are his booty call & he makes nice when he wants some!
If you care for him wait till you are 18 to be with him or he could be getting some really mature boyfriends in jail when he gets reported to the police!
2006-08-19 04:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. it's illegal
2. guys can "demonstrate" periodically but that doesn't mean a thing
3. don't believe anything until he hands you a ring and says I do at the altar.
2006-08-19 04:13:25 · answer #11 · answered by erk m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋