Can you answer this question and explain your answer...?

Question

if you had to choose 1, who would matter most to you?
Women: your father, your husband/boyfriend, or your son?
Men: your mother, your wife/girlfriend, or your daughter?

There can be no "best" answer, just looking for answer that best justifies choice.

Answer 1

My husband. The reason I chose this answer because as a parent I understand that it is my job to raise my child and then let them lead their own life. I see that from the reverse side as the daughter. My priorities lie with my husband, no longer with my father.

Answer 2

As a woman I would say without a doubt, my sons are the most important men in my lives. My father is second, but because I don't feel responsible for him or protective of him it is a totally different kind of love. My brothers are next; I love them so much but again, they are grown men and don't need me the way my sons do. As a mother, I feel that it is my job to make sure my sons grow up to be good, healthy, productive, loving men. My father and brothers already are. My boyfriend is great and of course, I love him too, but not unconditionally like I do my children. Nothing they do or don't do will ever change my love for them, but my boyfriend needs to work to ensure our relationship and love lasts. Does all of this make any sense?

Answer 3

Definitely my son. No question about that. My father is just that, the man who conceived me, a husband/boyfriend is an important person in one' life, but a son would definitely take first place. You carry that baby for 9 months, bring him into this world, watch them grow. You see yourself in him. He's a part of you and that will never take the back burner over any parent or man in your life.

Answer 4

Probably my son because he came from my body and has the most life left to live. It matters most that he become a good man like my husband and father and I have the most vested in raising a good son.

Answer 5

All of them. Your father because he raised you to be who you are and most women will model their husband after their father ( to be like him or to avoid men like him)
Your husband because this is your life partner and the one who will help you mold your children into adults.
Your son because there is nothing more precious than a child and your relationship with him and his father will help him with his choice when he finds a wife and will mold what kind of husband anf father he will be.

Answer 6

I would have to choose my kids. I know it's not one but I can never choose between them two. The reason why I choose them is becaus I have already spent my time with my father. I got to spend 26 yrs with him even though that isn't even enough time but I will have to say that I have already lost one son and that the fact of losing another one and not being able to spend time with them would kill me. So my kids matter most to me. THey are the ones that need nurtiured and showed right from wrong. Pass things on to them that my parents passed onto me.

Answer 7

Mine would be a tie between my father and my husband (I don't have kids). The reason being that they are very similar in terms of character and personality, and my relationship with my dad growing up was likely the reason I married someone like my husband (but *not* in any sick Freudian type of way). My father is easy-going and fun, responsible and loyal. He is a trustworty, honest, truly good man. My husband shares the same traits.

Answer 8

Probably my boyfriend, simply because, my father has lived his life and for most of mine he was there but not really a father and I don't have kids. Then again knowing me I won't choose any one of those because there are always other choices.

Answer 9

My wife. Easy choice, my birth mother died, my adopted mother is difficult to say the least and I have 2 sons, no daughters.

Answer 10

My father. No man will ever replace him and how he brought me up with all the TLCs and love showered. I would wanna say son, but I'm not a mommy yet. Boyfriends/husbands can be replaced, but u only get one father.