how can one be attractive in the eyes of others?

Answer 1

God made each one of us beautiful in our own way. Love has no barrier, including looks. When you love someone for who they are (character, personality, etc.) you love them unconditionally, no matter what they look like on the outside. Everyone has some quality that is attractive, whether it by eyes, smile, sense of humor, intelligence, etc. Looks are only skin deep and are not the "real" attractive qualitites of a person.

Answer 2

Hmmm... I guess it would depend on the others. People have types. For example... My type of guy is tall dark and handsome, but generally speaking, I just mean, dark hair, dark eyes, and good looking features. My husband doesnt have a type, he likes all women. My friend Alex has a VERY specific type, he ONLY likes red heads... So you see... there is NO exact way to be attractive in the eyes of others, the only thing I could suggest is to be attractive by personality. So be outgoing, be funny, be loyal and honest as a friend, Be ambitious, have goals, be smart, go to college, get a degree. Those kind of things are always attractive to anyone. Good luck

Answer 3

Just be yourself...then you attract the people who like you for who you are...
Don't put on an "act" as that is not really you...then eventually when the real you comes out the attraction might go away
The most attractive thing in the world is someone being themselves, comfortable with who they are and self confidence, not the stuck on yerself kind, but the confidence that you know who you are as a person and accept and like yerself.
When that shines through...you will attract people...the ones who are attracted to "you"...not some put-on

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be cool...

Answer 4

Be yourself! That is the biggest thing that everyone forgets when trying to impress another. Being attractive doesn't always mean wearing a much revealing outfit or wearing more makeup to look like barbie. Being yourself is the most attractive to both men and women. No one likes a front because that means that the person they are interacting with now will soon change. Who wants a surprise like that.

Answer 5

One sage once said, "Beauty is only skin deep, but ugliness goes clear to the bone". Or as another has said, "To have friends, one must be a friend". Your inner beauty will shine forth in wondrous ways if you stop concentrating on trying to make it shine and just be yourself. Stop worrying about what others see and be what you are, since you really can't be anything else than what you are anyway. As another saying goes, "The cream always rises to the top". If you let your "light" shine, everyone will see it and be blessed. If you constantly worry about what others think and see (Who made them perfect and able to judge others???) you will never be free to be you and you will not find contentment or joy in who you are. Remember that there is no one else like you in the whole world and never will be. Be who you are and don't try to fit into someone else's mold or idea of what they think you should be.

Answer 6

I think the most attractive people out there are the ones who feel good about themselves as they are- this creates an attractiveness that draws others to you. I think the "clean" that someone else mentioned is important too!

Answer 7

Just being yourself will make you attractive in the eyes of others, you will feel good as well.

Answer 8

one can be attractive in the eyes of others by the clothes they wear, their presentation all round, their personality, their sense of humour, their ability to fit in with the crowd, wearing make-up - sometimes a good thing, sometimes not - some guys like girls that dont wear make-up, and just someone who can be themselves. once scenario i've had that i've attracted others is while i sang in the train. everyone seemed to be looking and smiling at me. i dont know whether they liked my singing or anything. it could have bn the fact i was singing, but then again, no one said anything to me. another scenario on a different aspect is attracting a guy. well, on the day i attracted all the guys i was with, but there were two that really liked me. i only knew of one, and the other i found out later in the night. 'the other' guy i attracted his attention by waiting for him for a bit while he went to the toilet in a pub. i needed to go the bathroom anyway, but u was quicker than him, and so he thought i was waiting for him for the entire time. part of this made him open himself more up to me and it reflected in him buying for a round of drink that i was told to buy, and then while at the bar asking for that round him kissing me. he must have really liked the kiss because he just kept kissing me non-stop. we even went into hungry jacks and kissed for literally over five minutes, and it would have bn longer if a whole group of people didnt come in and watch us. after the night, i did think that perhaps because he had some drinks that mayb he didnt really like me, and if he saw the real me that he would freak out, but then i saw him again and that wasnt the case at all. he never wanted me out of his sight, and kissed me again. at the same time, i was wearing nice clothes on both occasions, so that too could have contributed to it.

Answer 9

beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there is nothing u can do to change that. if some one is attracted to u he / she always will be and if they r not no matter what u do they never will be. it the chemidtry between two ppl u either have it not

Answer 10

being attactive in the eyes of others is easy act like a lady and present your self with dignety. To others be respectfull and most of all be your self if you feel like the most attactive person in a room then you will present yourself that way.