We`v bin dating for a year nw bt i found out recently that he` been cheating?i love him very much and i want to talk to him about it but he`s too busy with beer and fun that he tends to forget about me and our appointments.I nid a serious man in my life do u think i shud just let go of him just like that.I know we can work it out but he is just too busy with beer.Shud i just forget him jst like that?
2006-08-19 02:58:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anastacia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is a cheat then dump him. And don't look back. Good luck.
2006-08-19 03:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly Leave Him.. Your Looking For A Serious Relationship And By The Sounds Of Things.. Hes Not.. Can His *** And Move On.. Once A Cheater Always A Cheater.. My Cuzin Dated A Guy 20 Times Thinking That Things Would Change.. Never Did.. Not Once.. Shes Now Over Him And She Said Shes Glad Because She Hasnt Been Happier And She Wishes She Did It Earlier.. Do It While You Can! Katie*
2006-08-19 10:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥OnCloudNine9♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to hurt you more than it hurts him. He is using you for a free fall. He is having his cake and eating it too. Do not ignore the cheating. Quit him but do it easy... or do it with your parents near..He is taking advantage of your low self esteem that you feel you need him or you have to put up with him and you will not walk away because you feel you love him. You out shine what ever he does and imagine in your mind to make up for his short commings all the things you wish he was to you. YOU are willing to forgive him for the other woman. If you are bold you would confront him in the act but you would need friends and a big body guard for that . It is best to walk away while you can.
Never let him take you to the next level. Pregnancy or the fact he can be in your like for the longest time. Cut it short and brief that you are not a fool for him. You will thank yourself later. I feel cheated and I have been alone but keep your heart open for Mr Right. The rejection hurts and the thought of him with someone else hurts. Beyonce has a new single comming out when she is Yelling I be damed If I see you with another girl on your arm and a movie where she is being controled by a man. Im black and I cant wait to see it. You know I felt like Tina Turner when I saw What Love's Got to Do With IT...You really need to see that one ...and see how she impowered herself. She saw herself alone but so far from the used little girl she started out as ...
Don't feel hurt and learn from your mistakes and go over the relationship as much as you can frame by frame word by word.
I remember with the movie... God Bless You, So Elect God to send you a great man.
2006-08-19 10:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't offer too much of my thoughts as u know the situation and him better than us. But I would only say that do try to handle the outcome with a good heart and not to hurt him or yourself in the process. Hopefully he would change for the better the way u handle the outcome.
2006-08-19 10:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My situation is almost the same. My bf which is my babys daddy. Drinks allot he is also way to busy with gettting drunk then spending time with me. He has not cheated on me that I know of. But I usaually acuse it of him on a daily basis. In my opinion it is total up to. It is your descion. It will be very hard to mend something like that and there is always the chance that he does it again. Girl, It up to you you decide what is best.
2006-08-19 10:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by expecting_1_31_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheated then he will do so again and if he puts his beer and friends before you then yes its time to move on cause it won't get any better for you and you need to be happy every one needs to be happy i was in the same place as you but i have kids but i could not live that life any more so i divorced and gave him everything and walked away with my kids so don't stay he will get worse and start beating on you when he comes in really drunk
2006-08-19 10:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Billie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl: your already know the answer. Move on and leave that cheating friend to his women and beer. He has no respect for you and is just hitting on you when he can not find some one else.
2006-08-19 10:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank...leave him..Its you yourself who think that it can be work out but have you realise that he don't even want to give this relationship a damn?
If you said he's busy with work, i can understand..but he rather to get busy with his own leisure and fun than having a talk with you about both of your relationship problem, i think it's time to move on...
2006-08-19 10:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you love about him?
He ignores you and loves beer. That tells you his priorities and obviously you are #2 on the list. Move on, sister.
2006-08-19 10:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the loser now before you get pregnant with his child or before he begins to abuse you physically. I see it coming. He is not prepared to make a serious life decision, so you have to do it. He's a potential life problem.
2006-08-19 10:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋