You are going to hear this time and time again, but it is best to just be yourself. Now, let me explain, when I was in High School, I couldn't find a decent girlfriend to save my life. when I got into college, I found out why. Its because I either wouldn't talk to the girl for fear of rejection, or when I talked to her, I would pretend to be the kind of person I thought she would like. That's the wrong plan.
In my opinion, this is what you should do. One day, when you feel like you are ready, just go up to her and talk a bit. Not about anything in particular. And if you want to just get to the point, ask her for her phone number and if she would like to hang out sometime. Do this in the most sincere language possible. Do not fake your way through it, trying to be macho or use some crappy pickup line. That crap only works on girls not worth having. If you get her number, let her know that you will be in touch, and that will be that.
If you don't, by some chance of nature, get her number, always, ALWAYS, keep your chin up. Literally and figuratively. Don't sulk about it, at least not in public, because your failures tell a whole lot about you than your victories. And if you take it well, people will think better of you. And when people's opinions of you are better, then you will feel better. And the better you feel, the more likely you are to talk to the right girl the right way. And that will lead to a relationship. So it's just about being optimistic and sincere.
Good Luck.
2006-08-19 02:58:05
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answered by deusdragonex 2
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Most girl in high school, are looking for a guy that wears the latest style as the popular kids, and hair the same like the popular kids if you do this and have the confident in yourself the girls will notice you, And when you feel like you like a girl don't play high school game just go right up to her and say hi my name is so and so I was wondering if you like to hang out and do something i think that you are really cute. but make sure that she does not have a boyfriend do the research first and most of all don't try to have sex with her within the first month of your relationship as most girls now a days are sick of the the guys who just want to go out with them for that reason.
2006-08-19 02:52:09
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answered by Anonymous
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my god you are only 17 why do you want all that hassle yet from girls
you should be enjoying life and having fun the girls will flock to you when the time is right what you should be thinking about is your education what you want to do with your life
travel and learn before you start thinking about girls
because what will happen you have sex she gets pregnant traps you and before long you are working your **** off to surport a young family enjoy your life first then every thing will fall in to place it is what is in your heart not what you wear
2006-08-19 03:02:24
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answered by nancy_habershon 2
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dude be yourself....just give her a big smile...girls know something is up when you're grinning at them and if they are interested they will smile back! just look nice! don't dress like a bum and you'll score! good luck hun!
2006-08-19 02:49:28
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answered by hannahrosey 2
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you are under age
2006-08-19 02:52:08
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answered by prince 6
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talk girl get one
2006-08-19 02:50:07
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answered by Anonymous
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graduate
2006-08-19 02:49:51
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answered by maryjoy m 2
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