while on holiday i met this girl and we just totally ''clicked'' (if you know what i mean) we understand each other, and she's unlike anybody else i've met in the past. we still e-mail each other and stuff, and we plan to see each other soon again, but it's always difficult beacause of the distance between us. what about the future? what should i do?
2006-08-19 02:40:40 · 17 answers · asked by wad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go with it. I've had two long distance relationships, with my partners being in an entirely different country (ending up in meetings). My most recent long distance ex actually moved to my country (but we split soon afterwards). Dreams can (and do) come true. Don't let anyone convince you that you feel other than you do, and that you would be better "with someone at home".
Patience is your best friend. Keep the faith that you will see your lover one day, and trust in your fate to bring you together again.
This is what got me through!
good luck!
2006-08-19 02:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by xian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should take it one day at a time, email and what ever is fine but how do you really know if she is being true to you if you too are far apart and how do you know if she really wants to be with you when you are not there people can use words to hide behind and they also can use words when they want to keep something going just in case what they have don't work out my advice to you is becareful.
2006-08-19 02:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent you heard faith can move mountains...have some faith if your feelings are that strong for this girl trust me you will find a way around this, i know people say that long distance relationships dont work, thats because people get lazy, and lose touch...if you are serious, with determination, you will find a way to make this work.
2006-08-19 02:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can suggest is that you stay in touch and see her as much as possible. Try to make every day you see her a great day. Do fun things so you have great memories you'll never forget. Get pictures of you both together..
2006-08-19 02:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A popular saying
Out of sight, out of mind.
Distance kills the love.
Get close, either of you have to move, else see the love decaying in 6 months.
2006-08-19 02:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can im her for now, but in the future you should try and go on a vacation to where she lives or just visit her for a few days
2006-08-19 02:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyzsirrom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very difficult. Is there no one closer to you?
2006-08-19 02:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somehow convince your country to invade hers. "Terrorists" always seems to be a fine excuse. Then you will own the girl and you can have her do all your friends.
2006-08-19 02:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by stevenkray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in contact with her and if its really meant to be you will find a way to be together. LOVE will find a way.
2006-08-19 02:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by younglady7826 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just communicate as much as you can. Visit her often and have her come to your country to visit. I think it can work.
2006-08-19 02:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by maryjoy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋