Let him go. A regular strip club is probably 'safer' than a normal night club. After all do you really think that all those strippers date the customers? Do you even think they like the customers? To the vast majority of the strippers they just want to show their ****, get some money and go home. They are not there to do anything other than what they need to do to get paid. In most reputable clubs they keep a close eye on the strippers precisely because they don't want them going off with customers. So there really is little in the way of trouble he is going to get into in a strip club.
Now all that said in REALLY dodgy clubs they have prostitution going on. But these tend not to last very long before being shut down. But quite honestly if your man is going to go with a prostitute, he can probably find one anywhere.
To answer the first part of your question, men go because they like looking at naked women. Most men never get tired of looking at lots of naked women. It does not mean he loves you any less.
2006-08-19 02:39:48
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answered by ZCT 7
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I don't like it. It's not a trust issue. I just think it's disrespctful to me to have my husband spend money to see other women naked when he has me at home. Luckily, my husband doesn't feel the need to go and is cool with that. The only exception would be a bachelor party. If a friend is having a party at a strip club, I'm not going to ask him to miss that.
2006-08-19 03:23:18
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answered by me 6
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YES! I trust him COMPLETELY!!! I dont care at all if he goes to strip clubs... We've gone together. You kind of have to see what its like before judging, So if you've never gone... Go asap, then you'll see, its NOT what you think. Its no worse than watching tv. My husband doesnt go without me, but if he was offered to go (which my brothers offer all the time) he wouldnt have to ask me, he would know I dont care. Im not the type of girl to get jealous, and Im not the type of girl to make someone elses decisions... If he wants to go... GO. When my husband goes out, I DEF trust him... I wouldnt have married him or even dated him if I didnt trust him. Hope this helps.
2006-08-19 02:36:33
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answered by Angel Eve 6
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No. Don't trust him. He is tucking hard-earned bucks down a gals G-String that belongs to you and your family. Men go because they are looking for a fantasy... if you are not in shape, get in shape, and buy some Fredricks of Hollywood or Victoria's secret, but the kids to bed early and give him what he wants at home.
2006-08-19 02:35:01
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answered by bottleblondemama 7
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I wouldn't mind if my man went to a strip club, as long as he takes care of me after he gets home.
2006-08-19 02:34:28
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answered by maryjoy m 2
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Me myself i have no promble with my man going to the strip club and yes i trust him if you don't have trust you have nothing if you don't trust your man then maybe you and him were not meant to be together maybe you should move on
2006-08-19 02:34:35
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answered by Billie G 2
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They go for the variety. It is just like women perving on other men. We all do it, because it's human nature.
I don't care one bit if my partner goes to them. I asked him to take me.
I trust him 100% in any situation we get put in where other women are about.
It's all down to confidence in yourself and your relationship, if you don't have either, stay single.
2006-08-19 02:55:44
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answered by xian 5
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strippers are just ladies that need money. but they dont care about other boys.
2006-08-19 02:34:39
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answered by joshgalkuletz 2
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i dont mind....its not like hes gona leave me for a stripper...
2006-08-19 02:34:01
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answered by Anonymous
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well i mean. let him go. then have him come home to you being a slut. then he will appreciate you.
2006-08-19 02:32:35
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answered by Anonymous
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