Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
I mean, dead serioulsy, i would die for her. I know you think im' crazy, but its the honest truth. Now she's is Totally all over this other guy, but barely ever talks to me. What should i do? I've tried so hard to move on.
I mean, I'm gonna see her today for the first time in almost a month. And im almost positive she'll totally be all over this guy, and wont pay me any attention. What should i do?
2006-08-19 02:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you are only 15 you have your whole life ahead of you don't get your heart broke so Early in life cause that is the road your headed down she is only 13 and does not know what she wants she is to young to know what she wants and if she was my daughter at 13 all over guys i would be one unhappy mother and take control but i guess her mother is a free one and lets her do as she likes witch is wrong as a mother i think you should find a girl who is your age that you can have fun with and don't settle down right now wait till your older
2006-08-19 02:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Billie G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You see you were gone for some time in Costa Rica and she is young, you are young too, so she would maybe start being attracted to hanging with other guys- BUT it really sounds like you 2 had something special going on. Try to start hanging with her the way you guys did b4. Maybe she will slowly start seeing how much you care for her and remember all the good times you 2 had together. I was very close with a person and then i didn't see the person for about 6 months and things changhed too. Maybe she is just abit shy in the beginning since u havent been hanging out for 2 months. I think you should try to get back hanging with her coz I can tell you LOVE her alot. Good luck.
2006-08-19 02:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, ive been there and i kno its no fun. all i can advice you to do is try to back off for a while. Dont pursue anymore and kinda ignore her but in a very polite way. once she realizes she doesnt have your attention anymore shell want you again.....and if in the end she doesnt, well the space between you guys will make moving on a lot easier for you. good luck and i really admire you for being so mature for your age but remember but not everyone around you is. <3
2006-08-19 02:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by wishopeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can sympathize with your plight, but you have to try and remain neutral. just stay friendly with her, and be fun and easy and light-hearted. what she might be afraid of, in specific, is getting into a relationship that ends up being too serious, too fast. ease her fears by showing yourself off as casual and understanding. she's young, real young, and you might end up just getting fooled around with for awhile, and then let go. but there's nothing inherently bad about that, if you can just enjoy the time you have together.
make sure you get your priorities striaght: everybody thought they were in love, and would die for someone when they were fifteen. what you're probably feeling(probably. i could be wrong)is infatuation. it will eventually cool, if that's the case, and you'll be left wondering where the "magic" went in your relationship.
2006-08-19 02:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah. Man I feel the same way about this other girl only shes not all over anybody. I would suggest just waiting shell get over that other guy and maybe like you again.
2006-08-19 04:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♣♣Brick♠♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your joining the club of first love young just buck up shes to young for a relationship and when all is said and done you are too!! its tough youll never forget this one but it sounds like you need to let her go and see what happens . shes got feelings running around her like horses in an open feild , and probably is a little mixed up but if she was out of the us with others shes playing the feild and might be just a heart acke waiting to happen good luck!!!!
2006-08-19 02:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by craig c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like her and was afraid of what would happen to your relationship and only wanted what was best for her and didn't want to hurt her if something would happen in the future. then one night you realized what you wanted and that is to be your main guy and to feel the feeling that we felt when were together and the only way that can be experienced is if we give it a chance and then not to regret it in the future.
2006-08-21 13:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by loved "N" confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to her but if she not cooperating, I will advise that you try to look else where. I know it not aa easy thing to down but that is life for you.
2006-08-19 02:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell HER how you feel
2006-08-19 02:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋