how to tell if a guy is cheating on you?

Answer 1

You never do really, in the beginning. Women blind themselves to the obvious clues.

1. He answers his mobile phone
out of your hearshot.

2. He doesn't allow you to answer
his mobile and he locks his
phone so that you can't check up
on him. This act alone is a clear
sign that he is unfaithful.

3. He claims he is too tired to have
sex. ( He probably had it on with
the other woman a couple of
hours earlier, when he claimed he
was working late/having a drink
with Bob etc, etc.)

4. He inexplicably misses planned
dinners, comes home late,
disappears suddenly from home
for a couple of hours.

5. Suddenly complains that having
sex with you is boring.

6. There's new stuff in his
apartment that you know he
wouldn't have bought for himself
candlestick holders, incense,
romantic CDs, new shirt

7. Suddenly acquires a taste for
food or wine that you normally
don't have together ie - his other
woman or women have
introduced them to him

8. He picks fights with you, all the
time.

9. He is suddenly reluctant to
spend time with your family.
you never get to see his folks
much either.

10. When you do manage to answer
up his phone, the line goes
dead on the other end.

11. You get pitiful looks from his
colleagues, but no one says
anything to you.

12. AND FINALLY THE ONLY WAY
A WOMAN WILL ACCEPT
THAT HER MAN IS CHEATING
ON HER He calls you at work
when he knows you're working
late, to find out when you
finish, ostensibly so he can
take you out for dinner. You get
suspicious. You leave work
early, let yourself in his
apartment and find him in bed
with the other woman.

Answer 2

Clearly trust is going to be an issue here. But I'm going to be open minded and suggest that if you're asking this question then there must be something that he has done or said to arouse your suspicions.

There are however some signs that indicate that your partner may be cheating on you. Now please bear in mind that these are just signs and are not proof. If more than three signs pop up you may want to concider asking some questions. Not a direct "Are you cheating on me?" But find out what has caused a change in behaviour.

1) Receiving calls that he then takes in private:

Some people do this to be polite. Others do it because they just don't like other people hearing their half of the conversation. There is also the possibilty that it's someone they don't want you to know they're talking too.

2) Loss of interest in...that sort of thing (Wink, Wink)

Has your sexlife dried up conciderably? There are many reasons for it, but a common one is that he's getting it from somewhere else.

3) His social calander has filled up.

Is he suddenly going to see friends without you there when he didn't before? More to the point, does he move heaven and earth to adjust his shcedual for these little meetings? Again, could be perfectly innocent, but...making special effort for meeting casual friends is a little suspicous.

4) Have your arguments increased?

The girl (or guy) on the side, is the new and the fresh. They are the adventure. When it comes to personal and life issues these are always taken out on the home girlfriend/boyfriend. If you notice an increase in the arguments the two of you are having, then this is another indication.

Answer 3

You don't have to look for ways or methods to tell if he is cheating on you. if he is not given you enough attention, time, love and caring as before or you notice he has change towards you then something is going wrong. Call him and have a honest and sincere talk together.Rather look for ways to improve and strengthen your relationship than methods or ways to know if he is cheating on you.

Answer 4

how to tell if a guy is cheating easy : he stops paying attention to u , he does not return your calls, he is distant, he always has an excuse not to see u or do anything with u, he avoids u neglects u and that is how he is cheating
basically he doesnt show interest in u anymoe and is to busy for u

Answer 5

At least from my own personal encounter, I start to see the behavioural starts to change, e.g. more concern on out look, stay out late, give excuses to work late or on weekend....anyway if a person really want to cheat there are many ways and tricks.

Answer 6

I don't know why it bugs me, this idea that a guy is owned once he is in a relationship. Especially if its in the teens or early 20's when you are supposed to be looking around. So dump him if you even suspect he is being unfaithful, both you and he would be happier that way.

Answer 7

If he's telling you he's busy everyday..if he rather telling you he's going out with his friends and din ask you along than going out with you..
If he always got unknown call...If he seems uninterested if everything that concern you..or he seems restless when being with you..

Answer 8

just ask him hun if he acts funny let him know your suspicios and maybe just maybe he"ll get the balls to be honest with you ! remember though you might just be a little paranoid and hes not unfaithfull at all hope so !!!

Answer 9

u ask a guy frankly if he still love u or not, and look to his eyes directly.u should be strong no matter wat happened between the two of u.love is sacrifice and dont forget to ask more strength to our almighty heavenly father,i know u can do it.just pray....god bless u always..................

Answer 10

Just ask him, that's the only way you will know for sure.