Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
I mean, dead serioulsy, i would die for her. I know you think im' crazy, but its the honest truth. Now she's is Totally all over this other guy, but barely ever talks to me. What should i do? I've tried so hard to move on.
I mean, I'm gonna see her today for the first time in almost a month. And im almost positive she'll totally be all over this guy, and wont pay me any attention. What should i do?
2006-08-19 02:13:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Appeal to the romantic side of her. Buy two boomerangs (like on little black book) and tell her just like boomerangs, if she ever needs you she can always come back.
But honestly...you're VERY young. No one 15 likes to hear that, but once you're twenty, thirty, forty, you'll realize this girl was just a phase. First loves die hard. It takes a long time, but it eventually stops hurting.
2006-08-19 06:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by mysonsablessing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a counselor or a therapist. I know that when you are younger, some feelings tend to overpower rational thought and you can become attached to things, even feel in love with people. But, you step over that 'young love' when you say that the girl is 13, that you would die for her, and that you would do "ANYTHING" to get her back. This is the start of going down a very unhealthy road, for both of you.
If she's not interested in you and is interested in someone else, then so be it. If it hurts you or makes you want to act in an unethical or dangerous way, then avoid seeing her. You can't make her like you back and you are young enough that someone who *will* like you back will come along. I know it's hard, but it really is the healthiest thing to do.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-19 03:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is this, if you really like this girl the way you say you do then let her be, don't show any interest in her, don't ask questions about her, don't talk to friends about her, just leave the situation alone, once she realizes that you are no longer interested she will come around part of the girls problem is the they love to be the center of attention once they realize the one person that has interest in them stops it makes want to be with that person, trust me even go out with other girls, it will show her that you have moved on and that you are not going after her any more. I bet within a week or so she will be calling you.
2006-08-19 02:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on hon. I know it is hard to believe not, but you will meet many girls in your life. You don't need to be treated like that. Hang out with your buddies and do something fun instead.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-21 21:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey...you are only 15, I promise there will be other girls in your life who will pay you more attention that this girl. Just do what feels right!
2006-08-19 05:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's a afraid of what others would think about her.
Tell her one more time. Play hard to get. And if she doesn't respond to either of them forget her.
2006-08-19 02:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by redd_apples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and things will be clearer. confess to her about your feelings and let her know about it.
2006-08-19 07:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by yanshan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck for both yall let here you feel
2006-08-19 02:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it!
2006-08-19 02:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by PAL L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. convice her that you really love her.
2006-08-19 03:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by .:BeLLe:. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋