he gets mad cause i hang up on him to go to sleep
today i got to work late cause i slept at 2:00am and i had to wake up at 6:00 am. He stayed on the phone all night with me but i fell asleep and i didnt even know he was there, but the alarm in the phone dint rang because he was on the line. when i work at night he stays up with me all night. why does he do this i tell him to go to sleep but he says no. I need a day of rest and he does to but he doesnt . What should i do
2006-08-19 01:47:34 · 19 answers · asked by SMILEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to him you're not going anyplace when you get off that phone but to bed! Also tell him you think its sweet, but it may end up causing you trouble in long run. Just don't make him think that you think his little gesture is stupid or anything, just gently explain it's cons.
2006-08-19 01:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie_Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone when he calls, take the phone off the hook (if you unhook the cord from the handset it won't make the beeping noise) before he calls.
He sounds like a nutcase - as in overly possessive and that is a scary thing. If he can't respect you enough to let you get sleep when you have to go to work in the morning, then he doesn't respect you - period.
2006-08-19 01:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull the proverbial pillow out from under his head...say GOODBYE, not goodnight. He is obviously very possessive and controlling. If this is what he wants in a woman, tell him to go find a submissive, so he can be dominant with someone who wants to live that life.
2006-08-19 01:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by parkmaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. He is an obsessive control freak. Turn your phone off and sleep. He will get over it or else he won't. Why you wanna be w/ someone like this
2006-08-19 01:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by eva c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does this to make sure your not cheating i bet that is what it is. He thinks because he is on the phone he will be able to hear if any ones there . Does he not trust you or something.
2006-08-19 01:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf sounds like an obsessive controlling guy. if he won't let you sleep then think of what else he could stop you...or worse still, ,make, you do once you get more serious. i get bad vibes from your question and really think you should get him out of your life somehow.
good luck
2006-08-19 01:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all he wants to do is talk to you, i remember i used to want to talk to my ex all night too, she would make me go to sleep, u just have to tell him how u feel about this, he will understand and leave u alone when u need to rest.
2006-08-19 01:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some reason guys can go with less sleep, he obviously likes to be in contact with you, but just tell him that its too much for you atm and that u need to sleep
2006-08-19 01:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is very selfish and if he dont stop it u ll unplug the phone at that time of the night
2006-08-19 01:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by yates1239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out of the house, if you dont get sleep can cause serious medical and mental health issues,
2006-08-19 01:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋