My buddies seem to be too finicky about the "figure" before dating a girl. I don't care much about it as I am not too obsessed about skinny thing. It's doesn't matter to me.
2006-08-19 01:39:37 · 22 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahwwww! that is soo sweet. You seem like you are very mature and that is a good way to be because a lot of girls with the small figures are the ones who will dog you out. Just because a girl is not a size 6doesn't mean that she is not worthy of a good man and that she cant be a good woman. Yes i do represent the extra beautiful women in Ga.
2006-08-19 01:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by missneutral 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's necessary anything wrong w/ accepting girls the way God has made them however I do think in today's society that women have become and are too obsessed with their weight. I can understand if your overweight and want to lose a couple of pounds I don't believe in unhealthy way women are doing it though. I think that you are just simply seeing the person for who they are NOT what they can offer, but bring to the relationship, what they can provide you with such as strength, emotional support, support in general, spiritual growth and strength. I think your a noble and wise man to know that beauty is only skin deep and after being made into Barbie what is left. You can melt her with a lighter and then there's nothing Silicon parts are made for toys. I think it's a beautiful think to grow old, I think it's a beautiful think to accept the changes throughout the years. I think it's even wiser of men to accept all this and date a woman based upon personality NOT superfical looks that will fade.
2006-08-20 20:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beauty is only skin deep... it is good that there are some people in this world that can see beyond the glamour. Things happen that is beyond "our" control. What happens if you marry a girl that is model beautiful and then years later she has health problems, she gains weight loses her hair and her beauty will you leave her because of that? If so then you was never in love with her just because she changes on the outside she is still the same person that she was on the inside. If you are looking for a person and you are judging her from the outside rather than whats on the inside then you could be passing up your soul mate.
2006-08-19 09:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by STEPHANIE S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people pay more attention with the characteristic and personality than figures and looks..That's good dude..
Cause appearances won't last whereas inner beauty will last...
I can only say that your buddies needs to grow up..and congrats..you have grown up...:)
2006-08-19 08:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is what is wrong with this generation today they put more into looks than what is inside, just because they look good out side don't always mean they are the right one, don't get me wrong there are people that looks good on the outside and inside but if you look past the outside you are more likely to find Mrs right. Go with what your heart tells you not what your head tells you (not the head on your shoulder the other one)
2006-08-19 08:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by redfinesse_l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some day you are going to make a great husband. You care about the person from the inside.
2006-08-19 08:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then I would say your one up on your buddies. You can get a beautiful girl- no matter what they look like.
2006-08-19 08:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong in not paying attention. Nothing wrong in paying attention either.
P.S. You sure know how to say/ask things that would make girls/women feel good about themselves. If you're sincere as well, you got my respect. ;)
2006-08-19 10:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by dalia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r out of very few guyz who dnt giv a damn 2 a galz figure.wel!!!!!!!!!! i dnt think dere is anythin wrng in not paying attention 2 a gals figure.
2006-08-19 09:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a gem to this upcoming manic world of guys who think only skiny and slim girls are best for making girl friend .as they dont understand that love is not with the body its with the soul .
you are 100% correct and please don't change .
2006-08-19 08:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by tazeen_merlin2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋