I'm too angry. My father always takes care about my sister only and not me. He takes my sister to the shop, bringing us somewhere but makes me walk but bring her in the car. He only loves my sister. I just can't take it anymore. It's like I want to die right this minute. What should I do?
HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 00:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by ErC 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have patience. Love your father more and more. He will surely love u.
2006-08-19 00:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all young man, here is a great big hug for you only. Keep it with you always! Put it next to your heart and don't forget it is there to use when you feel like being hugged!
Now, how old are you and your sister? Are you the big brother? Is your sister ill?
How is your relationship with your mother? I know I have always wanted a son because of the very special bond my mom has with my 2 brothers.
Not that I love my one and only child (my daughter) any less because she is a girl. We share a very close and special relationship!
If your mom and you are close, try to focus on that and not so much on how your dad takes care of your sister.
Remember there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long it looks.
Something I would like you to think about...
I had 2 brothers, no sisters. Notice I said had?
My older brother felt the same way you do.
He wanted to die so bad he shot and killed himself.
I dont think he would have done that if he realized just how much pain he would create for thoes he left behind. Let me tell you son, the pain is awful! At times it is unbareable!
PLEASE dont do anything like that.
If you want, you are more than welcome to email me from right here at yahoo answers. I will be there to help you remember the hug I sent you and to try to lift a load off your shoulders.
You are a valuable asset to this world. No one is any more important than you because NOBODY can do what God put you here for but YOU!!!!
I am sorry this is such a long answer but you have really touched my heart young man.
2006-08-19 08:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by lill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, have a good cry. It's the "stuck" buit-up emotions that are causing so much emotional pressure and agitation. Find a quiet spot, lock the door, and let them come out. Your father may be protective of your sister...I don't know what country you live in, but in some--the girl always gets that kind of treatment. Feeling left out isn't fun (I wasn't my father's favorite -- been there also.) It may help if you could find a good family member that you could confide in, and also maybe talk to a counselor. Letting these kind of things disrupt your happiness still makes you unhappy. Find a hobbie, or something that you are good at, something you can excel in. Remember that you don't need your father's approval whether you are success or whether you are happy. Be your own authority, and all will be fine. Just remember to let out the sadness. :) Don't let your father's sibling preference rain on your life. You are a success, so go out there and show the world.
2006-08-19 08:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now is the time for you to grow and become a man little grasshopper. Although it would be great for dad to show a little more love, you can't demand it. How old are you? Maybe this is his way of grooming you to become more independent. Maybe he is preparing you to be the man of the family you my one day have. Sorry that you don't feel loved. Turn this thing into something positive. Get a car. Get a job. Leave the nest as soon as possible.
2006-08-19 07:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to calm down. You're a guy, you're more capable of caring for yourself than your sister.
Confronting your dad might not help and do not direct your aversion towards your sister.
Show your father that you are self-reliant and responsible. Soon, he'll become more vocal how proud he is to have a son like you.
Good luck and God bless.
2006-08-19 07:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel exactly the same only with my mum n brother!!! It's soooooooooo unfair but u have to just deal with it
2006-08-19 08:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by HSMLuver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor boy... really i pitty you.. but this matter is not so serious that u might feel like ending ur life.. life is precious hold it with both hands... ur sister might be very obedient , nice and caring,, and i guess u are'nt like ur father's expectattion... try to become the one whom he likes... or otherway
ur sister might be ill.. might be weak.. so he takes spl care of her .. try to solve seriously not dramatically.. good luck..
2006-08-19 07:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by pinkk_purple 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,I think you should just tell your dad that this is bothering you so much!
2006-08-19 08:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
complain to your dad...you have a right to
2006-08-19 07:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by akasha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your dad how you feel
2006-08-19 07:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by norwood 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋