why do girls always do this?

Question

I got a gf she loves me a lot in the same way l too love her but she allows me upto jus kiss not more than tat i request her a lot several times but she doesnt speak on that she says only after marriage she knew that i definetly marry her then why doesnt she allow me ?? first i thougth she doenst love me but my friends say that she loves me a lot she helped me everty time when it is necessary .. what is this?? I recently met a nice rich girl she is ready for anything she gave me lots of money too some days back my old gf saw me with her and went away crying ???/ iam nto able to understand if my old gf loves me then why cant she allow me to do it ??/ other wise is she having any relation with other person?? shall i leave her and procced with the new one?? iam really in a deep trouble ???

Answer 1

You are a nerd. You know nothing about women. You are out for one thing and that is to get laid. You have led this girl on and I think she is wise not to give in to you. You have showed your true colors. I understand that men think they have to have "it". But somes girls were raised to wait for marriage. Of course your old gf went away crying, you have broken her heart. There is nothing more prescious that a girl can give to her husband on their wedding night except her virginity. Knowing that she has never been with anyone else and is yours and yours alone is a special feeling. You have chosen a girl who is rich, gives you money, and is willing to do anything. How many has she been willing to do anything with? You are not just sleeping with her, but with everyone she has ever slept with. I agree you are really in deep poo poo.

Answer 2

Hey Mr. you have not studied the function of human bodies and behaviour. Both man and woman have different structure and functions. Why are you forcing her when she is right.

As a man, you have no problem to face. You will fu..ck and forget.

But it is not the same with woman. She faces lot of problems, like, losing her virginity before marriage, next pregnancy, if you leave her in the middle waters after knowing that she is pregnant, what she should do? If this happens, it is very difficult for her to bring this news to her parents, later unwanted publicity, later getting abortion, the parts of her body is subjec to change after pregnancy. She has to face it. Hence, she cannot oblige even though she is also interested in sex. Dont force her for God's sake. Be a good friend and try to understand her. Why can't you wait till marriage takes place? All men should be trained in this regard.

Answer 3

Hey! It ain't all girls that do this, it's only gurls that want 2 protect their dignity that would do this. I believe sex is worth waitin 4, y don't u zip up n' wait 4 the afta-marriage where u would rock each others world. It ain't all gurls that trusts men.
E.g, she doesn't want a situation where afta u've had sex with her, u'll eventually leave her n' it would be hard 4 her 2 get ova it.
So, don't blame her, she's tryin 2 work accordin her principle n' her plan. Don't be surprise, when u've gotten her, u'll even b tired of rockin her, so, just wait........... I think thats a good advice.

Answer 4

Are u nuts ? The way she went away itself shows that she loves u like anything. U just want 2 leave her bcoz she is not allowing 4 *** . If she is an Indian girl she will never allow u 2 do *** b4 marraige. & still if u r in a great hurry, marry her quickly.

Answer 5

cause dey feel insecure
even if ur goin to marry her but den to feeels like tat
cause no girl will ever want to ruin her life
i think she loves u lot
pls listen to me da rich girl is just tryin to use u
her luv is not true she wants to buy u by money
u dumbo y did u hurt her
i think ur first gf loves u
n to tell u nlove doesnt mean only sex
love is understanding between two persons
if u leave her n go wid da other ull be ruined
n if u realise later it will b too late
u can hav sex even after marriage
i think u carry on wid da 1st gf

Answer 6

Have some respect to her if she doesn't want then she doesn't want.Maybe for your gf taking that step is big one and she wants to move slowly,she isn't like the other rich girl who is ready to give her body to everyone.You have a great girl out there an don't let her go take it slowly relationships aren't all about going to bed there are more fun stuff to do and if u are considering to marry her then be patient with her.Her body is a temple and she doesn't like to let veryone inside it.So be patient and don't let her go.

Answer 7

you have penalized your gf because she did the right thing... She cried because , i bet, she either realizes you can't control yourself enough to be faithful, or you don't love her enough to be faithful and good for her to not give it up yet to you. Look at your question. all you want is to get laid. Marry your gf asap and I will bet she keeps you very busy. You will become one of those who deserves a sad marriage if you fail her now.

Answer 8

She's made up her mind that she wants to wait until marriage. Either respect her decision and quit trying to influence it or go for the new girl who'll just throw money at you. It seems like that's what you care about...

Answer 9

It's called morals. She has made the decision not to have sex with anyone until she's married. It has nothing to do with if she loves you or not. You don't love her or you would have respected her decision. Do her a favor and end it with her. She deserves someone better than you.

Answer 10

hey hey heyy.take it easy.if she doest let you to do somethıng more than kıss ıt means she ıs not ready for thıs or maybe that ıs about her wıew for relatıonshıp ot get marry.that does not mean she doesnt love you.just gıve her tıme .and dont go other gırls,that ıs not beıng polıte.ıf you realy love thıs gırl you should be more patient and understandıng.


peace..