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we have seen each other 3 times and said we like each other, we hold hands and kiss. when we first met i said i wasnt ready for a relationship. but im ready for one now,but she told me that she isnt ready for a relationship neither as she enjoy seeing her friends but she wants to get to know me and keep seeing me. im confused please help

2006-08-18 23:52:08 · 28 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

Just take your time and take things as they come and you will be ok no rush

2006-08-25 10:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There could be two reasons for this:

1) You told her that you were not ready for a relationship and she thinks that you are probably trying to use her for sex only this could be why she is blowing hot and cold on you. And cannot decide whether or not she should proceed with the relationship.

2) She could be just seeing you until she finds a bloke she wants to settle down with.

2006-08-23 02:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well first of all if she says she isn't ready for a relationship then you cant really force it. I think the best thing to do would be to give her space and of course see her regularly because obviously she is interested. She may come round to wanting a relationship in the near future but don't do anything to scare her off in the meantime.

2006-08-19 00:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by clairie1986 2 · 0 0

What do we do when someone says something? If we like them we generally don't want to scare them off so...If you said you aren't ready she is hardly going to say "Well I am and I'm going to marry you next week" is she? No, she will reflect your feelings and make you feel that she is prepared to give you time even if she would love to run off into the sunset with you...tomorrow! Ah such is the mystery that is a female!
You should be pleased that she has respected you wish to take things slow which is always the best policy if you want things to last.
Read the signs and suggest you meet a little more frequently. If she says no then fine, she means what she says, if she says yes ok then off you go!
Keep your chin up!

2006-08-19 00:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbly lil Thing 2 · 0 0

richard b,

You sound like an interesting young man from your description of yourself.

What I would say, sir, is not to push it. If you both are comfortable with being friends, then let it be. Time will tell if either of you decide it should go further.

You mentioned that you're into football and playing in your group. I think this young lady is trying to tell you that she has outside interests too. Maybe she doesn't want to see all of time devoted to doing the things that you want to do. She may feel 'pressured' to fall into line with your interests, which may not be her interests.

Let her maintain her friendships with others, just as, I'm sure, you will with yours. Gradually, and if the signs are right, you will find yourselves getting drawn closer and closer together.

Best of luck.

2006-08-23 16:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by micksmixxx 7 · 0 0

It sounds like that this girl is not the right girl for you. Especially if you are thinking of having a serious relationship with her and she has told you she doesn't want a serious relationship with neither. I think she is just using you until something better comes along. You think very carefully before seeing her again!!!!

2006-08-22 02:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by trollfido 2 · 0 0

Well, there is 2 things i can think of. One, she maybe likes you, but is scared to get hurt. So she just wants to get to know you better, which is good. So you should just hang out more and get to know each other better. If the chemistry is strong, it will work out.

Second, she might want to explore other options i.e other guys. She likes you, but she wants options before making choices. She might find other guys, and well leave you. Or she really likes you and she will be with you.

So, its your choice to make the decision. Good luck. Maybe you can have options too, you are a guy anyway, so look for other girls til you find the one that sticks to your heart.

2006-08-19 00:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0 0

It sounds like a relatioship has already blossomed. She probably said she wasnt ready because you said it and she didnt want to come across as over eager. Just let things play out as they are.

2006-08-26 22:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Peter 2 · 0 0

Wait until she is ready, and keep being really good and yourself to her. Or tell her what you just said and she will understand. She can also see her friends and do everything she does now almost, but also see you as well...

2006-08-19 00:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Keep your feelings for her on hold for a little while longer. There is nothing better than two very good friends falling in love with eachother. So keep your mind open coz its just too early to fall in love with this girl.

2006-08-19 00:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Shady McCool 3 · 1 0

She's giving you a golden pass don't screw it up by being too pushy. If you guys are kissing and holding hands and being physical then everything's falling into place anyway. What's a title anyways?

2006-08-26 21:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0 0

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