My boyfriend and I are together for about half a year and as we live in different countries, we don't see each other very often. by now I feel really strong about him, he's a great person and I would love to spend more time with him. I have an chance to move to the same city where he lives. Now he's been already married and has got a 6 years old son. I would like to get more serious, but don't want to scare him and I'm not sure if he's ready for new commitments. I know I should ask him, but before I do, are there any signs which could tell me?
2006-08-18 23:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by E-Fox 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just mention that you have an opportunity to move there, say nothing about you considering it. See how he reacts to that. If he responds well, then you can work towards that.
2006-08-18 23:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything problem in a relationship, should be discuss. There is no sign telling you anything, and if there is, how sure are you that those sign are true, could be false. So there is only one solution. Talk to him and ask him. Explain how you feel about him, and talk to him. I am sure things will be more clearly when it's discussed.
2006-08-19 06:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the guy is already married when you met. In that case he is probably cheating on his wife which is not a very manly thing to do. If, on the other hand he has since been divorced and is looking for another woman in his life, then I would say go for it
2006-08-19 06:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Shady McCool 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He'll be willing to stand before God and lots of people you both know and put a ring on your finger. Any other type of guy is a dirtball. I'm not sure how to explore his feelings on the subject diplomatically, but that's what it all boils down to.
2006-08-19 06:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as one of the dominate gender he would of used signs like asking ?'s, like oh lets say would you come and live with me?. He would tell you you things like i adore you you know s**t like that.
2006-08-19 06:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by ken q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 'do' him already. Unless you are underage, in which case you two should share a soda and a smile.
2006-08-19 06:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to test him many times ..
I knew I loved you before I met you
I think I dreamed you into life
I knew I loved you before I met you
I have been waiting all my life
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2006-08-19 06:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well meet up with him and you'll know if he's ready or not.
2006-08-19 06:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋