I used to love a girl i came to know that she is loving other person so i didnt propose her but the other person used her sexually and left her she was in deep pain then ..... then i became close to her this happnd some months back now i proposed her to marry she accepted afther the marriage can i have physical relaton with her ?? then doesshe feel that iam married her jus for physical relation or shouldnt i have any physical relation with her ????????? tell me
2006-08-18 23:38:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol.. whats wrong with having sexual relationship with the woman if youre already married? dont hesitate to do so, that is one essence in married life, the sexual activity between husband and wife. If youre not yet married, then it depends, if she will not resist your advances, that means she likes what youre doing.. everything goes naturally. how you think about the thing is not really important...
2006-08-18 23:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Puzzledmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you have consideration for the woman you wish to marry but you need to discuss this with her BEFORE you marry!
I'm sure that she will appreciate your honesty and sensitivity if you are open. It's about BOTH of your feelings. If you just go with the flow and seek only to please her you will build up resentment inside which will not allow your relationship to grow.
Think twice - marry once!
2006-08-18 23:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by »»» seagull ««« 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thumbs up , man! I've been there. I loved her just for her not for sex, but you must touch this problem and discuss this with her. As a man married to his woman you should have sexual intercourse, that seems only normal. Just talk to her about it. Was she rapped? is so then you could talk to a psychiatrist for help.
2006-08-18 23:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are married should have physical relations. But if you don't love her for many other reasons, you're just using her too.
2006-08-18 23:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? i don't understand your question. Have you had a sexual relationship with her up to now. She used you in a different way. Be sure that you were not winner by default. You deserve better
2006-08-18 23:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Nina V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know dude...of course you have to 'coz how can you have a family w/o havin' physical contact w/ your wife?...but here's the deal try not to do any "yacky" things to her just like people do in a "XXX" movies...right??...so i hope i helped you somehow...one more thing try to be generous to her(your wife) always treat her like she was your queen...in that way she will think that you married her 'coz you reaaly love her and not just only because of "sex"....
2006-08-18 23:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh she is your wife, and your newly weds you guys should be like bunnies right about now. you shouldn't even have the energy to post that question. Go seduce your wife! and enjoy making love to each other!
-NmD!
2006-08-18 23:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying and start living.
This is life - this is living.
Marry her and be a good husband to her, because she learnt the lesson.
Why do guys do such things?
2006-08-18 23:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u marry sum1 they becum ur wife u dont just sit there and stare at each other! yes u do do physical stuff its normal i mean afterall she IS ur wife
2006-08-18 23:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your wife, you have to have a physical relationship with her.
2006-08-18 23:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋