i feel limerence for someone and i want it to go away.....?

Question

i just want this feeling to go away because i think of my limerent object a lot and i hate it....

Answer 1

Even if you do nothing, limerence usually fades in a few months. It is sometimes easier to avoid rather than made to "go away."

I find this question odd because most people who feel limerence do not know that it is not romance or love. The condition usually is linked with looking for positive signs for feelings to be returned.

If you are serious, find anything that will change your thoughts. Limerence is more in the mind than in the heart. Crossword puzzles, SudoKu, and even mystery novels are ways to keep yourself occupied.

Answer 2

Stop thinking about it, do something else, sing a song, go for a walk, call a friend..etc.