is it ok to be single?

Question

what you all think?why some people can easily find partners but while some others cannot?is it outlook very important to get someone?or is it because of fate ?

Answer 1

It is okay to be a single if you accept that it is OK for you to remain single....Acceptance is the key. It depends on how you carry it.
the ARt of Waiting is also true..it says that flowers do not bloom overnight and Rome was not build in a day. the right one will come at the right time. And when it'll not, too many people around you are waiting for the love you want to give like your family

Answer 2

Take it from me, I have been single for a very long time or should I say for most of the time. I am not bad looking and I am in good shape. I think that some people are more satisfied with remaining alone than others and some people [like myself] may have had a few bad relationships at an early age that may have made them timid with regard to any long term commitment. What happens is that we get used to being alone and then people like myself stop asking women out on dates. I decided that I would concentrate on the areas of my life I could make better. It doesn't mean that you are gay or that you don't fantasize about women, actually the opposite occurs. Some people call us late bloomers and some of us never bloom at all. One other aspect is that some of us can't deal with denial, so we never take any chances. I have come to the conclusion that for myself at least that I don't care if I only have a few partners in my entire lifetime. I will not lie about it though, the loneliness is there [well hidden] and longing for love never really fades. But if you dwell on it, depression will set in. Every once an a while a beauty will eye me up and will wonder what it would be like to be touched and caressed. You wouldn't believe me if I told you how long it has been. If you are young and you are concerned about your image, you should at least try to remain honest with your intent. Try to be honest about what it is you want out of a relationship and avoid the ones that are destined to fail.

Answer 3

before you can be in a good relationship I believe its important to also be confident in your self !!! If you think their is something wrong with being single and you are not a whole if you can not say your part of a couple then you really can not say your confident in your skin . By the way people are attractive to personality and not just appearance ...confident people always tend to attract others !!!! I ahve also heard that from most people when they are not looking for a relationship is when they usually attract more people ....when they are just out their in joying life !!! Yes I am in a relationship of 10 yrs and happily married for 5 yrs so I think that rule has always worked for me ....as I did have a busy social life all the times with friends etc ...People are not destined ot be lonely ....they just make opportunities for themselves to be lonely....I have a friend that has such a low self esteem of herself that people usually run away from her . She has suffered in an abusive relationship sicen we were 19 with a guy placing her down every second and her excuse is no one will ever want her ! Anyone is better of single then in a relationship like this

Answer 4

hell yes!
when you're single, you're very much in control of your own life! Unlike when you're in a relationship, your significant other has to know every single move you make. Thats just..irritating isnt it?

You know, i find people who worry much about whether they'd be getting in a relationship or not pathetic! All they do is talk and write about how they want to find a partner that they are already missing the more important things this world has to offer! Being single rocks, and having to worry whether or not to find a partner totally sucks!

Answer 5

Some people find it hard to find a significant other because there standards might be to high. Most people are searching for the "perfect person" but in reality there isn't such a person (but if you find one ask him if he has a brother)
I'm not stating to settle for a looser or anything like that but I know a couple of people that will drop a guy just cause he doesn't where cologne or cause he put loafers on instead of sneakers

Answer 6

whats wrong with being single?
Single = freedom to do things you like w/o having care and concern for the other party
but sometimes, loneliness do get you down.
the most important is to be happy with who you are, and only get into a r/s when you feel ready, and that the guy is the one who you think is right.
Outlook do play a part sometimes. but who cares? i love my bf not for his looks, but for many other qualities.

Answer 7

To be honest I can find as many partners as I want, but most of my relationships have been crappy. It's easy to find someone, but it doesn't mean that it will work out. It's alright to be single. It's better to find that someone even if it takes a while. So I rather be single then have a bad relationship.

Answer 8

It's okay being single. Some people actually enjoy being single. Some people just can't control theirself so get boy/girl friend the wrong reasons. Some people just waits and get boy/ girl friend the right reason.

Answer 9

If you are a christian , plse read the bible, Corinthinas 1-7

it clearly states that your body is not yours, it belongs to you partner, and vice-versa.

as a matter of fulfilling the written word, you should have someone to love you, and you should have someone to love.

dont be single if you are still young...enjoy life while it lasts

good luck

Answer 10

It's great to be single instead of being in a bad relationship.